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***Please understand, first and foremost, that I am not interested in, nor would I EVER entertain, the idea of a white male or female. Please respect that. No need to give it the old college try and send a message anyhow. It will simply be blocked and deleted. We do not have to agree, we just need to be respectful o ones differences and boundaries. Whites are my hard limit! And for those of you that still insist on sending me a message in order to TRY to insult me (it does not work) or to tell me how racist I am, please educate yourselves to understand that there is only one race, the human race, and therefore I am prejudice...and no, I still do not care that you do not like it!*** I am a single, black, plus-sized (bigger woman), submissive female. I am 37, I have no children, well educated and employed professionally in a career that I love. Have been off the lifestyle scene for a while but am gradually making my way back, if I am able to make a genuine connection with someone I am interested in. Interested in African Americans ONLY!!!!!! If interested in conversing, please leave a message. Oh, I travel extensively throughout Georgia, for work, so I am open to communicating with people from various areas of the state. I also travel frequently, domestically and internationally, for leisure.

I also want to explain who I am to you. I am not your typical collarspace or lifestyle submissive. I am an alpha submissive. I am strong willed, independent, have strong opinions on various topics and can be stubborn (not necessarily a negative thing). I am a woman that does not need to give myself, mentally, emotionally and spiritually, to someone but I want to give myself to someone a man of substance. It is one of my innermost desires. With that being said, I will not just give myself to anyone simply because they label themselves as dominant. For me, anyone I choose to embark on any kind of relationship with must show themselves worthy of this gift and of me. Yes, I am and can be a handful which is why Im not just for everyone. I will be too much for most, usually the insecure and inadequate man. I dont say this to be arrogant or disrespectful, just speaking truth. I dont need to be broken or made to bend to your will. I will say, however, that for the man of substance that has the capacity to handle, and even respectfully control me in all ways, the benefits are great! I will not relinquish control (submit) to just anyone. I am far too precious to place my life in the hands of reckless individuals. While I do realize that the above narrative just sent several people in the opposite direction, I am good with that. That was the purpose. No hard feelings. 128578 I hope you find what you seek. By the way, If you are under the age of 30 and over the age of 50, you are messages will go to my bulk mail folder as you are out of my specified communication age range. My preferred age range is 30-50.