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My needs are simple, Control of whomever might be in my service, will be expected to be honesty respect, and sincerity. ??I am married and I'm not in the market for a vanilla romance. I encourage those of you who are married as well to contact me. I am skilled and experienced and genuinely dominant, I'm that natural leader, bossy bitch, you know well, who does take anyones crap, and speaks her mind.?
I would like to start long standing relationships with submissive men, crossdressers, sissies, pain sluts, foot worshipers, etc. If you have fantasized about it I have most likely have some experience in your fantasy. Mine fantasies are many, and I will only choose to exchange message about them once we have establish a that you are real, and looking for REAL, IN PERSON service.
I do care about submissive men, and the struggle you go through living in a society that can not see the benefit of having men who crave female lead sexuality and relationships. I know because I marred one.
Training with me is simple. a mutual consensual agreement between us that states both of our, ?hard limits, likes, dislikes all of which will help me to construct a enjoyable and intense training session. I am interested in what makes your tick, so I can mold you to my needs when you step into my world.
Things I find annoying are men who message me with less then one sentence, as well as anyone who addresses me as Mistress, and engages in some sort is submissive bantering as if I would ever be interested in any online training. Please find yourself some web mistress to serve, there are many would love to take your money. you trolls know who you are and I will not ever reply to any message within the format describe. If you are truly interested in serving a strict but caring woman. I welcome your contact.?
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If I don't get back to you right away, because I do have a life besides BDSM. I will get back to you as soon as I able.?
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No more young men!!!!!!
You must be 30-50 for me to consider you |
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I am waiting right now
You send me a photo full body. I will request a interview. I not going to space you all out. If you se me talking to some one sit down be polite and wait your turn. Once I have the one. Everyone else is out of luck. We meet in a restaurant or coffee shop near 10 st and walnut street
we eye ball gov issued ID.
The scene is simple, I I am accustomed to having sex on a regular basis every day. But I am separated from my husband and those needs need to be met. I have toys and fun things to play with nothing hard-core .
You will enter the door Remove all your clothes and kneel on the floor and wait for me to get you. In your i initial inquiry I should know your hard limits.
I'm look forward to this
You be 20-35 Lean to athletic build. Light facial hair OK, hot body. Sweet disposition.
Switches need not apply |
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I'm staying on Chestnut and 12th street i would like to meet a submissive this morning and Have him serve for the today, your limits and boundaries will be discussed can you meet me For breakfast this morning face photo gets you a reply with my phone number |
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I have taken an appartment in Center City.
Sadly, I could not find two bi boys to play this weekend. My call now is for just boys and men will be my toys Be a beautiful with sculpted hot body, to meet this evening. I masturbated, for 2 hrs last night without an orgasm. I need a hot body to help me get off, but I want to meet some of you long lost submissive who aren't necessarily in the best shape, . I am a lifestyle Domme trained as a Domintrix I am concerned about YOU and how you tick.. The scene was once my life and I aim to construct a new one in honor of the standards and boundaries of that time.
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Some wicked pampering is in order.
Athletes I know how hard you work your body, you love to take your clothes off and show it off. Where are the gorgeous boy toys hiding? You are what I seek right now.
My needs 3-4 hours on Friday early evening. I want two bisexual or bicorious, submissive boys age 26-35 to serve me, in a hotel room. The two of you will work as a team to give me multiple organisms with the use of my cocks and vibe devices. if I detect any competition between the two of you Corner time and other more appropriate punishments will be administered. I like a really long drawn out organism, and of you truly love to give a Domme pleasure without commitment. This is a no brainier guys! Be real with ID. I've had an encounter with a underage sub |
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I'm posting to as a public service announcement. I read this article a couple of months ago and it gave me some clarity on the subject.
Submissive Frenzies
By Mistress Steel (steelbfl@sonic.net)
Submissive Frenzies are a state or condition that many if not all submissives will experience at one time or another. Many aspects of BDSM are similar to addictions in how they play out in the mind. From that perspective the Frenzies can be considered to be the ?withdrawal? stage. The peculiar thing about this is that a submissive need not ever have engaged in a real life D/s BDSM experience to actually go into this state of need. Generally the very first experience a submissive will have will be prior to ever engaging in a real life D/s event. Many submissives can chronicle a ?longing? or unspecified ?need? which may have begun when they were quite little. This sensation was always present though generally unacknowledged or openly reviewed. In many cases the submissive was not able to identify the source of this sensation. It simply made them restless and on occasion subject to frustrated outbursts.
With the ?finding? of the D/s BDSM community many submissives feel a corresponding ?surge? of excitement. Suddenly they sense or feel that this is the source. The realization or identification of this can be both positive and negative. For many there is a period of denial, anger, repugnance, fear, hesitation, temerity and hope. All of these emotions seem to occur simultaneously leaving behind confusion and anxiety. All at once they begin to ?sort? the events and motivations that have occurred over their entire lives. Seeing the patterns, the hints, the presence of their desires in so many different ways. It explains previous unexplainable actions they may have taken and views the actions of themselves and others from an entirely different standpoint. As they begin to process all of this new information they become fully aware that the source of all those supressed needs and desires is attainable. Not only that but in a fairly accessible in a timely manner.
What occurs next is a mad dash or race toward ?finding? that special person who can attend to those so long unattended needs coupled to a desperate desire to gather more and more information. This often triggers or propels the initiation of a state of frenzy. This is an increasing and progressive sensation of ?need?. Fairly quickly the submissive may discover that ?getting their fix?, becomes supremely important in their lives. It can leave them irrational, willing to make poor decisions, rash, impulsive and generally stupid. A submissive in a frenzied state is at their most vulnerable to succumbing to the ploys of those less than admirable. They may become easily enthralled, believe themselves ?in love?, willing to give over anything (almost literally) in order to fill that enormous void in their life.
Contact with a Dominant, almost any kind will tend to rivet their attention. The very first gift that the submissive gives away here is their common sense. The sensations piggyback, by this I mean that the submissive upon discovering the community and all the excitement and feelings surrounding ?finding their home?, may easily pile on their ?desire? for completion and pounce on the first candidate that comes along as being ?the one?. They invest everything, believe everything and leap at the opportunity. Too often they discover they have grabbed at a tin ring instead of a brass one, they have some sort of nasty or unpleasant experience and step back trying to discover what is wrong in their new world.
In addition, a submissive who has detached from their Dominant will slowly but surely go into a state of need. This is in my opinion a naturally occurring state by which the submissive projects their availability and desire for a new mate. I should also mention that the experiences within the relationship are in many ways addictive. The state of natural euphoria that a submissive may experience during a scene can set off a hunger to experience that again. This is identical to the introduction of any addictive drug chemistries into the body, the same symptomology in many ways.
A submissive in a pre-frenzy need state will often become very alluring, flattering, flexible. They will mirror the apparent ?needs? of the Dominant they are talking to in order to appear to be the perfect candidate for a future alliance. Though the submissives in general do not tend to lie here, many only present partial truth?s. One said to me, ?you have to ask me the right question?. This leads to multiple problems including a submissive attaching to a Dominant that is completely unsuitable for them.
As I noted earlier this state of frenzy can occur at any point in a submissive?s life and is not limited to the new submissive. In fact, it occurs sometimes even stronger in more seasoned submissives. They have a need that they recognize as perhaps to ?have their edges taken off?, and they know exactly how that can be done through their own experience. The difference is that the older submissive can then ?often as a good friend) to relieve their physical need (play). Many Dominant?s (experienced ones) will be willing to assist or aide their friend knowing that keeping the submissives edges down will allow that submissive to retain the majority of their rational functions while they are seeking their next mate. This action ?reduces? the submissives vulnerability.
From a Dominant?s standpoint it is preferable to discourse with a submissive who is in their best condition. It is very important for the Dominant to learn to recognize the symptoms of frenzy and allow for the premise that the submissive?s judgment may be impaired when speaking with them. This allowance should propel detailed questions. Also the Dominant should give ?few? hints as to what they may be looking for. In this way the submissive is more likely to reveal themselves as they do not have a guide to go on. By this I mean that the Dominant should take control and ask what the submissive is looking for instead of offering or directing the submissives attention as to what the Dominant is seeking. In this way the Dominant can generally get a clearer picture of where that submissive is in truth. In addition I believe that the Dominant should not allow the submissive to thrust their ?submissiveness? at them, instead they should require the submissive to respond to them in neutral or top space as an equal from one human to another. This means that allowing a submissive to use an honorific title when addressing the Dominant should be something that submissive should earn the right to do after a period of time. In example . . . I am not every submissive?s Mistress. The right to call me Mistress is something in my real life that I grant seldom and means that this submissive is special to me.
By taking this action the Dominant forces the submissive into a less vulnerable state when conversing with them. Somewhat like drinking coffee to wake someone up. It is also saying that submission is something I (as the Dominant) may allow you to present to me. It is not something I will allow you (as the submissive) to force upon me.
All Rights Reserved By Mistress Steel
comments or e-mail steelbfl@sonic.net
other articles can be found at www.steel-door.com |
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What not to say to Wicked Lovely
This was sent by two different screen names! HA what a bottom feeder!
Dear Lady i am a very generous slave. i am very obedient and polite and submissive. i love to work hard and long as a slave. i love to give compliments and like to be critisized and punished hard verbaly, mentaly and physical for smallest mistake. i can take much verbally and mental abuse and humiliation and much physical beatings. May slave please be allowed to beg to be allowed to sacrifice itself for Lady's benefit? Humble regards jan
Dear Lady i am a very generous slave. i am very workwilling and can work hard and long time. i an very obedient and submissive. i love to give compliments and like to be hard critisized and punished for smallest mistake. i can take much verbal and mental abuse and humiliation and can take much physical beating. May slave please be allowed to beg to ask if slave can sacrifice itself for Lady's benefit. Humble
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Interview with Wicked Lovely
Hello I just wanted to say that I enjoyed seeing your unusual profile. I was just wondering what is it about married men that appeals to you? Do you prefer them to single men?
I don't. I crave sexual control. your marital status doesn't matter in my world. but as married people in the scene we have something in common, Single men, of course have their uses too, everyone is welcome to stand in line to serve me I'm okay with that. REALLY I AM.
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meeting some potential pets here, now who to start with first? For all you TROLLS BE REAL or be blocked.
Cheers!
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