WELCOME 

i appreciate all types of people and welcome anyone to message me, but i'm try to focusing on happiness this year.  It's obviously had me in an uncomfortable state of mind trying to question myself as much as all of you Doms do.  "What am I looking for?"  i always felt that was a restrictive question, that in essence, narrows you into a corner or box of what a daydream could be.  

i want everything and nothing.  A collar and a smile while being told i'm a good girl.  But what can i offer?  i'm not here to move in with You or even build a life.  i have my own and i admit i'm using You as an escape.  So i'm here to use people?  Perhaps.  But in the meantime i hope to serve You in the manner that pleases You.

You can help me see if You are a good fit if You match these key qualities:

1. Be Intelligent - You don't need a degree for this.  There are so many types of intelligence that i value.  Street smarts counts.  Trade knowledge.  Experience in the world.  If You have nothing to share with me my vanilla side will grow bored.  

2. Be Sexy - There are multiple aspects to get into me - mind heart and holes.  Try all three.

3. Be Open - if i'm talking to You there's a chance we are both old as fuck and have little time to waste being secretive.  Share with me and I'm sure I'll get attached.

4. Do Not Be Afraid to Dominate me.  If i didn't enjoy it i wouldn't be here.  Sure i like certain things, but you already know what you like so no need for hesitation.  Time will tell if we are compatible.  i have many Doms, but no Master.

5. If you aren't talking to me in hopes of becoming my Master then why are you?

There are a lot of preconcieved notions as to why a girl like me would seek this arrangement.  i am not here to ho for money, i do not need a job or to relocate or a green card.  i own my own property and i have a full time job.  There isn't a bad situation to rescue me from or anything you can lose by loving/owning/controlling me.  i respect those i encounter and expect the same. 

My dream submission situation would be one on one with someone learning and exploring their Dominant side.  i have a low tolerance for pain and would prefer to have someone to serve.  i enjoy possessive passionate men and the cages they bring for you.  i'll try my best not to rattle the bars too much. 

i'm also here for regular friends and encourage you to accept me to your circle.  As I'm getting older - i also encourage any younger submissives to reach out if they need someone to talk to.  This life wasn't made to be easy, but having a group helps navigate the murky waters.   

From now on i will be uploading journals to annouce my status.  Please read my posts if you are feeling like you are interested.  

Now the dreaded what i do not want at all ... 

1. i really don't like guys that are younger than i am.  It just creeps me out and eww don't.  i may write you back just because i am nice, but please remember it will never be.

2. i really don't want a submissive man sexually.  If we are talking it's to be friends and support each other.  Don't waste my time.

This is the longest profile i have ever submitted.  i read some study that said short profiles are either psychopaths who don't want to have to maintain a consistant lie or they are just fakes.  i hope this redo gives potential Doms the ability to gauge who and what i am before messaging me.  

There are a lot of messages.  Occasionally, i will just click read all to clear the notifications.  If you were left on read don't be upset with me - just write and start a new conversation.  

Short messages will get two/three word replies.

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