Recently I came accross a question. I found it very interesting. Now i pose the question to Y/you.
The Question is: 
If it were possible for your friends, family, neighbors, to know what type of lifestyle you live, either a sub/slave or a Dom/Domme or a switch, and be accepting of your choice, would you tell them?
This was my answer:
Yes and no. Yes because in a way there would be a bit of releif that you where not holding something back from them. (People are good at recognizing when people are not upfront when talking about a subject) Also they would feel a bit more comfortable with your changes in manurisms as you grow in experiance and confidence.
No for the reasons that some people like the mystery of having a secret life or getaway from reality.
I have lost my train of thought...
but for the most people would not be so unique or seek the lifestyle if it was well known and accepting. So maybe we shouldn't always try to shove our beliefs down everyones throte. But i do believe awareness of SAFE SANE AND CONSENTUAL should be at the forfront of our legel agenda, and that our way of life should not be taken advantage of to use as an excuse for abuse.
Rayvn
So what is your answer? |
