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Bisexual Female Dominant, 34,  Phoenix, Arizona
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 Dominant Female



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 7"

 192 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Submissive Transgender

Sub/Sub Couples


CHECK ME OUT ON Fet, twitter & My Tumblr:

11-24-17:  ISO of local submissive for intense slave training to serve & submit to Me ongoing. Must understand the following: 

1.To serve Me is an honor

2. always show Me your appreciation and gratitude

3. NEVER show up empty handed! I require consistent tokens of appreciation and devotion.

4. Be available for real-time AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK!

Must want to service Me in a myriad of ways.

Interested??? Send Me a petition for consideration to My email;

A bit of the juicy details as to who I AM:

I AM a queer and/or pansexual identified,kink aware educator & advocate, polyamorous Lifestyle Alpha Female/ Fem Domme and Professional Domina who is searching for one or more of the following:

*lifestyle sissies, pain sluts, or true submissives who are open to pursuing a collared relationship. Yes, I am big on sole ownership (but am open to sharing and renting My property out)

*a potential slave that is open to a 24/7 commitment/ collared Mistress/slave, D/s foundation with some S/M qualities with the possibility of a live in 24/7 situation

*Female submissive/potential slaves must be AT LEAST bi sexual. Be open and/ out. 

*Male slaves must be AT LEAST kink friendly, willing to please & keep Goddess happy BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY. Male slaves should be open to pansexual experiences. Including cuckoldry, chastity, tease & lots of denial.

Let Me also add (I have had relationships with MtF Trans Women,FtM Trans Men, & Asexual identified individuals)
Someone who is kinky, loves to engage in safe & consensual "Mistress approved" behavior.

*someone who has exhibitionist/ voyeuristic tendencies & does not mind being the focus of My torment & entertainment albeit a demo bottom for a workshop or class I am teaching, a video I am doing, or simply pictures of you as My victim (and yes --model release forms and face MUST be on able to be seen)

*all must be open to real time relationships I AM NOT INTERESTED IN CYBER/ INTERNET RELATIONSHIPS.

*I am also looking for those seeking just to indulge in their kink for a few hours a week/month/year for Professional Domination & Fetish Sessions.

*Any/all must understand the definition of 'tribute' and must be willing to tribute, gift, or show Goddess Sadie just how much your adore Her & how devoted you are to Her.
Even personals are expected to contribute to My happiness & comfort. NO EXCEPTIONS!

ANY/ ALL those whose wish to occupy My time or energy, are expected to contribute IN SOME shape, form, or fashion, to My Household -- NO Negotiation, if you do not understand this NOT bother contacting Me.

I travel extensively throughout the country with a concentration on the east coast and south. However I am looking to do more travel overseas to Europe, South America, Australia & the Caribbean.


This is My philosophy, this is My reality:


ANY/ALL that contact Me for casual introduction, friendship, service, consideration of any kind, etc UNDERSTAND what that means--or don't bother wasting My time!



Goddess Sadie Hawkins

*affectionally known as Ms. Hawkins, Ms. Sadie, Ma'am, Mommy, Daddy, Mistress (to a select chosen few), Domina Sadie & Goddess Sadie



Goddess Sadie Hawkins; a lifestyle professional Dominant of color currently home based in Phoenix, AZ via KY; is the CEO of Sensuous Sovereignties, Carib X Consulting LLC., Sadie’s Herbal Remedies; FDA certified as a Master Herbalist in 2006 & most recently the proud Owner & Head Mistress of Secret Shangril-La AZ (
Goddess Sadie is a third-generation West Indian Medicine Woman, ordained Minister and a 13 year initiate of Alchemical Healing & Shamanic Priestess functioning in the Native American tradition. She performs rituals and ceremonies for various communities nationwide.
Goddess Sadie also functions as a Kink Aware Sex Educator, Therapeutic Consultant, Psychosexual Intimacy Coach, sacred sex practitioner & veteran in the art of Tantra.
This lovely Libra Lady identifies as a Alpha FemDom, Pansexual, Feminine, Polyamorous Earth loving Pagan. She is also a Fetish Model & Fetish Performance Artist, who has been interviewed on numerous internet shows including; Dr. Susan Block's Speak Easy, Playboy Radio, Spice Radio, Certified Sound, Fetish Cult Sirens, My Eyes Your World ( Atlanta Couples Play Global to name a few.

Goddess Sadie is the former director of a weekly Talk Radio Show and a fifteen-year advocate of Sex Workers Rights. Goddess has worked as a phone actress, relationship enhancement product distributor, substitute school teacher, nanny, & professional dominatrix.
Currently she is studying to become a Certified Hypnotherapist. She is an active member of APEX (Arizona Power Exchange), MAsT Phoenix(Masters And slaves Together), & Club FEM (Females Enslaving males)Arizona chapter. Goddess Sadie also served as Madame Secretary 2010 for ONYX Pearls Southeast chapter, as well as Facilitator & Co- Founder for Black B.E.A.T. Atlanta chapter Goddess Sadie loves to travel & is always zealous about tomorrow.



Journal Entries:
6/1/2017 11:39:29 AM

7/19/2016 1:16:33 PM


After going through FIVE domestic servants for My Dungeon: Secret Shangri-La AZ in the past two years.  I have finally accepted that fact that YES; I need a competent, reliable, sane & physically fit domestic sissy maid!

In the past My style of Female Dominance has always been for "s types" to pursue & petition Me for service. Well, since relocating to Phoenix 5 years ago I not only realized that is not how subs operate here, BUT that by Me waiting for an "s type" to petition Me; I am not finding quality / consistent/ devoted/ serious domestic service!

Which brings Me to this post!

Why you do not have to identify as a "sissy" or a effeminate submissive male.  I do require a domestic servant to wear a uniform.


I require this for several reasons:

1. It is an honor to serve Me & My Dungeon in a domestic capacity.

2. To remind you of your role & duties to My household.

3. I personally have a intense fetish for uniforms.

4. Wearing a feminine uniform in a house of Female Dominance not only gives reverence to the Divine Feminine but honors My personal philosophy of Gynarchy, Matriarchy, Female Supremacy & Female Led Relationships (FLR).



I also require the following:


  • Be service oriented! Meaning be here for the service, NOT for free playtime! Play is earned, not expected!
  • Be available for CONSISTENT domestic service at a minimum of one day per week.
  • Be financially secure; you will be required to purchase your own uniform, wardrobe, chastity device, and / or whatever I deem is appropriate for you to reflect the epotimy of a domestic servant.
  • Be single and / or realize that no external prior relationship will interfere with Me, nor your service to Me.
  • Have previous pertinent skill set! Ex, Know how to iron, defrost a refrigerator, clean a stove, operate a vacuum, clean a bathroom, scrub a floor, dust, and the importance of clean baseboards & windows, etc! YES, I pay close attention to detail and you should too.
  • That you understand & agree to consistently contribute to My household; physically, financially, emotionally,  and Spiritually. 


Potential domestic servants should send ALL of the following information in an email to "" with the subject matter: "domestic servant consideration for Secret Shangri-La AZ":

  1. Full legal name (YES I require full disclosure of identity of all those that serve Me on a personal basis)
  2. Telephone number & the best hours/ time frame to reach you.
  3. List of of your skill set. Both personal skill set (i.e. gardening, previous chambermaid experience, etc) & professional skill set (i.e. mechanical engineer, licensed massage therapist, real estate agent, etc).
  4. Stats: Age, height, weight, etc
  5. How you identify (i.e. sissy, slave, sub, switch, crossdresser, straight, bisexual, transgender, gender non-conforming, asexual, queer, etc)?
  6. Your preferred pronouns? (e.x. My preferred pronouns are Female pronouns. She, Her, Hers).
  7. Location? City and state.  Within driving distance to Phoenix, AZ or the luxury of flying into Phoenix Sky Harbor Airport on a consistent monthly basis.

Please note, that ANY email that does not contain ALL SEVEN pieces of information I have asked for will go ignored & unanswered.  If you can not follow My instruction... I am not interested in you, and have no use for your service.



Could this be you????







3/6/2016 10:18:51 PM
Ebony FemDom visiting Dallas, TX 3/10 - 3/15 & Atlanta, GA 3/17 - 3/21
I am visiting Dallas TX area for Ebony FemDom Kinky Sorority Weekend & SouthPlains Leather Conference as well as Atlanta GA for Leather Leadership Conference & ONYX Pearl SE event:
I have decided to extend My visit beyond the weekend festivities to allot a bit more time in Dallas, for private Professional Domination sessions.
Double sessions with Mistress Navia(
A Deposit is required to solidify a session (
Should supplicants have questions, concerns, etc they should contact Me via phone at *82-404-5 2 2- 2 7 8 9 
between 10 am - 11 pm CST for My immediate attention 
(NO blocked calls or SMS messages ever entertained!)
IF sending Me an email ( please allot 12-24 hours for a response as My days tend to be too busy for immediate email responses.

★VISITING AVAIL BY APPT & DEPOSIT ONLY, therefore schedule accordingly★

1/12/2016 1:56:31 PM

2016 New Year New Focus! The Year of Education...

Happy New Year!

2016 is FINALLY here.  2015 was a bit challenging with Me, surgery, a divorce, the release of a devoted slave girl; it seemed like 2015 just wouldn't end.

With all My personal shifts in 2015 I decided to take some time at the end of the year and fast for Kwanzaa to redirect My focus.  Fasting, Meditation, & some true introspection always is My magick pill.  Plus life itself was shifting for Me, without Me doing too much besides being still and taking note of those things The Most High Creator was manifesting in My life on this physical realm.

I have been wanting to shift My career for quite some time & alas the shift is happening!

I have been a full time Professional Domina for a little over 12 years now & a Leather Lifestyle Kinkster for even longer.  I always enjoy one -on- one power exchange experiences, however with the surge in online insta-Dommes & the sensationalizing of BDSM due to 50 Shades of --- everyone with a pretty face thinks becoming a Dominatrix is an easy overnight road to stardom. Education & mentorship seems to be a thing of the past; which really bothers Me!  I don't like to complain, therefore I am always trying to become a part of the solution.  2016, I will focus more on educating others on Power Exchange, FemDom, Leather History & tactical BDSM skills.

I have been chosen to be a presenter at Sin In The City 2016. Sin In the City is a an annual conference that takes place in Las Vegas, NV.  It is three days of erotic / kink education, BDSM Dungeon play parties every night, host of International Leather Person of Leather contest, vendors & shopping on top of kinky people from all over the country in one hotel for 3 days. PRICELESS!

I will be teaching three classes:

1.  The Ins & Outs of Enemas

2.  I want my mommy! Age Play 101

3.  Lace Up Lessons; The history of tight lacing, waist training, corsetry & its influence on Women's intimate apparel

Sin In The City is the first of many opportunities I will be educating others in the Kink community.

Stay tune to this blog for other events I will be presenting at.  

I also offer on - on - one mentoring & hands on education via My consulting company; Carib X Consulting Group, LLC.  If interested in booking Me send all inquires to:

I also recently enrolled in a course to become a certified event planner.  With the launch of My Dungeon; Secret Shangri-La AZ in 2014 & collaborating with Ms Navia O'Kink putting on Ebony FemDom Events every quarter in Dallas, TX, I realized I thoroughly enjoy throwing events!  So why not get certified so that I can possibly pursue planning fabulous events for others!

Lastly, but certainly not least, I am now the 2016 Director of Marketing for ONYX Pearls Southeast! ONYX & ONYX Pearls are currently the only fraternity & sorority for POC (People of Color) in the Leather, BDSM, Fetish, Kink & M/s Communities.  I became an ONYX Pearl in 2008 & am quite zealous of the re-launch!  What this also means for those out there that follow Me, is that I will be visiting My Atlanta home & ONYX family more often this year!

So needless to say, 2016 is going to be the year of education! 

As My mentor & ONYX Pearl family says "Each One Teach One."

I should also add, that even though My schedule will be quite busy with school; I will still be available for Professional Domination sessions, peer - to - peer mentoring, & Consulting services via appointment ONLY. As always deposits will be required from anyone I have not seen previously: NO EXCEPTIONS!

Just to give everyone a heads up as to the cities I am confirmed for 2016:

Las Vegas, NV

Las Angeles, CA

Dallas, TX

Denver, CO

Louisville, KY

Cincinnati, OH

Chicago, IL

Atlanta, GA

Nashville, TN

Manhattan, NYC

If you are in ANY of these cities & are wanting to session with Me; get your deposits in! I am also looking for slaves willing to donate frequent flyer miles or Southwest Airlines gift cards sent to the email address: ""








7/10/2015 5:58:46 PM
 Ebony FemDom visits Chicago 7/16 -7/20

I will be visiting Chicago, IL 
July 16 - July 20
& will be available for Professional Domination sessions by appointment and deposit ONLY.
Find more information via My website: 

For questions email Me at:
I also accept phone inquiries daily from 11 am - 11 pm EST at *82-404-522-2789. 
ALL blocked/restricted calls go directly to voicemail!

I should also add:
a. There will be opportunities for cameo appearances and Double Domination sessions with Mistrix Ms E of NW Indiana.
b. I am also looking for video victims and those open to photo shots while submitting to Me.
c. Those supplicants interested in public humiliation, shopping excursions, etc go to the front of the line!

Looking forward to this upcoming visit, as I have not toured Chicago since 2009!

Wacks, Smacks & Spittle,
Goddess Sadie Hawkins

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