I am a novice,but know that I am a dominant. I prefer to think of myself as having a personality type that more closely resembles an A-. I have skills, with out the cloying need to prove myself and treat everyone like a challenge that must be addressed by showing I am better than you. Intelligence and compassion are two musts for any relationship. Everything past that is a bonus. I am seeking to learn about what kind of dominant I am. I am also working to understand submissives so that every interaction is fulfilling.

As for actively seeking, I simply adore women.  I love their way, their smell, their feel. I get charged by working to distract them from even the simplest task with a small touch or breath against skin.  Much depends on the individual. Learning and growing are the key. 

So, you want to see what I really look like?  The pic below is close, but I have grey highlights in a goatee.  I do have the fur rimmed hat (and mistletoe!)  I do not have a picture of myself on here because I need my privacy. however I do have a photo I can send after we talk a few times...will ask for one in return.