__I am a tender creature with a wild soul. Show me a man worthy of my submission and with the inner strength to tame me. To him I shall belong.__ At the moment I am seeking a Dom and/or maybe a master. I am open to couples but would prefer single men, or men in an open relationship. I am currently in an open relationship with a man whom I love very, very much but the situation is flexible and complicated. I am looking for a more long term primary (or only if the right one isn't interested in sharing) but am also open to finding play partners along the way. I am also looking for a man (Dom with me but sub with him) or a sub woman who would be interested in joining my boyfriend and I in the bedroom for some play time. Also for those looking for a friend, sounding board or for advice... I am an open book, for the most part. Feel free to ask me I don't bite (unless you tell me to). I may not be very experienced in the lifestyle but I have plenty of other topics to offer experience, incite and opinions on. I am looking for new friends. I'm very new to this site and to the life stile. At the moment I'm thirsty for experience and curious about almost everything. I do not have a specific goal of what I would like to get out of this site. I see my being here as more of a first step on a new path. I don't know where it will take me but I'm curious where it may lead. I do have to keep this side of my life private due to my chosen line of work. So that is not negotiable. I have a very short list of things i am absolutely not interested in (which i will share upon request) other than that I'm very open to new experiences. I have plenty of sexual experience however most of my past partners have been very vanilla. I prefer men for long term relationships and more extensive/serious sexual experiences. That said I also enjoy playing with women. I love the female body as a whole and very much enjoy breasts. I love the sounds a woman makes when she is enjoying her self and I love kissing. Also, when it comes to women, I tend to be far more dominant than submissive. Not sure why but that's how it goes. I'm a strong, intelligent, woman with a strong personality. I believe that this is why, or at least part of why, I usually attract more submissive men. I am a brat and do not make it easy to dominate me but I do prefer the role of submissive. I just need a man confidant and strong enough to show me who's boss, I've found this surprisingly hard to find. I'm usually very timid with new people, especially online, but I do warm up, it just takes a little wile, so don't give up if I seem a little distant. Also, for the most part, i am not easily offended so speak your mind.