Well quite a few of you have pointed out that I am not really a sadist, because I don't enjoy giving pain per se. I enjoy giving pleasure and if the other person gets pleasure out of receiving pain that turns me on.

On the other side of the coin, I am caring, so will look after you, will bathe your wounds and always make sure you are safe and receive pain within your boundaries - which together we will stretch.

I will not e mail anyone, I will look at your profile and if you are interested in mine you can e mail me and I will reply. I do not make first contact because there are so many timewasters on this site