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themistressforu
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masj442
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I've been submissive all my life. I have been in successful relationships twice. The rest of them were fraught with disappointment and left me unfulfilled. I'm looking to fill a gap in my life since my late husband/Dom passed away four years ago. I have a couple of issues that makes it hard to find a good fit with the right person or couple. I have P.T.S.D. from an event that happened in my past. But I can work on it.
Relocation isn't a problem. I'm into bondage, domination, spanking, and in the right situation poly relationships. I prefer m/f/m, m/m/f. I was in a great quad relationship a few years ago, and and I've been owned in a M/s relationship too. Though I prefer D/s relationships more. I've been conditioned and trained to be adaptable to most situations.
I do not like to have to "weed" through any of the flakes, posers, and wannabe's (you know who you are), I am not a "gardener". So if you fall into any of these categories then, please do not contact me. Because I am finding my sense of humor is not what it used to be when dealing with fools. I will decide if I am willing to discuss my personal information with you after we have talked for a while, so please do not request anything personal from me in the beginning, unless you are willing to be forth coming yourself.
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10-26-2014
Why I wonder do people come to these sites thinking... (and I'm sure that there are a few who do and can think). That all a person is interested in is "hooking up" for a quickie. There are so many who have contacted me saying that they "needed" someone with an open mind. All because their wife of however many years was "vanilla" and didn't understand what they "needed" in their sex life.
Well let me tell you...First off..."YOUR" the one who married them to begin with! And if they were "vanilla" then, what makes you think they would ever change after the marriage?
Secondly...If you have "only" just recently discovered your "kinky", and your wife doesn't understand why you want the "unusual" sex...Well thats because your just having a mid-life crisis and should just go out and do what every other man does when it happens to him... BUY A CAR! or HIRE A HOOKER! Because all your really wanting out of life is the reassurance of your manhood. Or a reason to cheat on your spouse.
And lastly...You should stop and realize that if your wanting to "hook up" with someone for the occasional thrill, that all your really going to end up with is a heart broken spouse. And if you really loved them like your telling me you do, and don't want to hurt them...you should know that its going to end up biting you in the ass in the end any ways. Because they always find out and will be hurt.
If they are truly "vanilla" to the core. And you think you are truly a Dom with a dark kinky side (You know who You are). Then be a man and sit down and tell her why you want this and open up about everything. If she can't accept it then be the "Honorable One" and file for a divorce so she doesn't end up hurt in the end by You.
At this stage in my life I am through with playing games. Its not about the "games" or "hookups" its about finding someone who shares your "passions" in life, about living each day with someone you can talk to and share with. Someone to come home to and be yourself with. Companionship and Commitment. Sex is still good because life without it is a boring bit of shit...LOL
Please if all your really wanting is sex then contact those who list in their profiles thats what they want too. Because I hate being treated like a quick hook up applicant. |
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10-25-2014
SUBSPACE
I breath in, a little struggle here and there.
The straps around my wrists and ankles, tight, digging into my skin.
My toes feel cold almost numb.
I scream a little scream… And moan.
My head jerks back, Your fist tangled in my hair.
I’m on the floor, Your eyes devour me.
Some insane, foolish lust… that I love.
At your feet.
A painful tingle, begging to be assuaged.
I feel wet on the inside of my thighs.
My body smiles and screams, screaming, to be taught a lesson.
I can’t help it, I want more of what you’re giving me.…You see it in my eyes.
Too intense, I feel I’m going to trip and fall.
Until you pull me back, calming.
My body wanting more again... Too much.
My mind is racing…faster than our pace.
I just can’t take it, trembling on the edge.
Waiting for permission... I fall safe into subspace. |
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9-4-14
This is a message to anyone I may have insulted or got smart in the mouth with while I was drunk the last few nights. My only excuse is that I was with friends who know that this is a very trying time of the year for me. And they got me drunk to get me through the grief process. My Husband/Dom died four years ago this week. And I still miss him.
It is never my intent to be obnoxious or rude to people who have never been that way with me first. I sincerely apologize.
Drunks should never be allowed to talk online..... |
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8-18-14
Contrary to most persons beliefs, not all people with a profile here sit in front of their computers like pathetic fools in hopes of someone talking to them. I as well as many others do have and enjoy real lives with jobs and families to contend with. I myself work two jobs and volunteer for local charities. And I have friends and family to take up my time too. I am only here because I seek to get to know others of like interests, and hopefully find a new relationship.
I hope it it obvious that when I do not respond in a forthwith manner, that I am not available at the moment to talk with someone. And just because it shows me online that doesn't mean I am sitting there in front of the screen. I leave my computer on all the time because I have other business requirements that are used on it.
Now that being said... I have been enjoying talking with the few I deem to be honest, real persons of interest. And I look forward to getting to know new people still. But if I am not in a relationship with a said person then I am not going to revert to using improper writing skills, by lowering myself to referring to myself in a negative form. I do believe in using proper english format when writing as it does show that I am educated above a third grade level. And I would be willing to refer to a Dominant by any title he has earned. But I am not just going to cede a power to anyone just because they say to do it. They must show me they are truly worthy too.
And to the idiot who keeps sending me the same message but from different profiles, (really you could at least change the pertinent information in each of them).
As for me being "of slave quality" and that as a said "slave" I have no "rights" to any opinions, or hard limits...It just proves to me your full of shit and should not have any right to own a slave. As a slave does still in the long run have the right to leave your dumb ass.
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7-20-14
To continue a thought I had several days ago. When do most kinksters "retire" from the life? I grew up with family in the lifestyle well into their late "80's" And I once met a wonderful couple that were in their "90's" and still doing scenes in the Club they had been members of for 30 yrs. But after a recent talk with someone who is only in her mid "50's" She told me they had decided to stop playing and had left the lifestyle due to them being too old to do it any more...I asked her if it was because they had health issues or if it was because their interests in sex had waned. Her response was they still had vanilla sex every night, but that "old" people shouldn't be playing in kink. That it was something for the younger people only...WTF!
Who makes up these rules? And why am I only now hearing of them? And why do I have to live by them?
Some one needs to alert the rest of the BDSM community when the rules are made or changed so we all can get on the same bandwagon...LOL
Though I think I will just continue with the dance to the beat in my own head... :) |
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7-17-14
I am at a cross roads in my life. I am 51 an as physically active now as I was 30 years ago. I am told that people my age aren't supposed to live by the seat of their pants. Their not supposed to want excitement and thrills anymore. And that being a senior/elderly aged submissive was just sad.
My thoughts at the time was...Is that what they think of me an my fellow older/elderly kinksters? Am I just giving them something to talk about behind my back at their so called munches? And then I realized they were just upset and scared. Because I am still doing what I like in this lifestyle and I am still as active today as I was 30 plus years ago. And they are starting to get bored and complaisant, stuck in a safe routine. They are wondering why I am still open and enjoying life everyday. When they are learning to balance a family, work, and play time. And struggling to figure out the ins and outs of what I already learned 30 years ago.
You can't slow down or life will leave you behind. And its okay to take time to play and seek excitement if you want. Because someday (maybe in another 30years) I won't want to play and have excitement in my life.
I am with several groups that are strictly of the similar ages. And I am with some with a varied balance of ages. And I have discovered that the people that play the hardest are the ones who have already learned that life can be cut short for many reasons. And they are willing to take it in hand an live in the moment. Because that just might be their last.
Until my moment comes I intend to live, seek excitement, and enjoy every moment I have. |
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7-9-14
What draws a person to submission? For me its always been a way of life. I was raised in a D/s poly family, so I never knew any other way to live until I was old enough to notice that my friends all had different types of lives to what I considered normal. They had a mother an a father. I thought whats the big deal? I had two mothers an two fathers in the same home. That makes me the luckier person, right?
But after I grew up an learned the different nuances of the lifestyle I had chosen to embrace. I realized the real attraction to submission for me is the releasing of my inner struggle to someone. To give the secret inner core of me the permission to let go. I crave the feelings invoked when my mental and physical will are subdued. I can find clarity in the haze of my mind when I no longer have to struggle to appease all sides of my consciousness. It centers me with the knowledge that I am still the same solid, strong willed person I have learned to be. While opening me up to allow my soul the feeling of freedom to become someone I never would have thought I could be. |
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7-5-14
Not to force anyone to have to "troll" through my "dross and drivel" of a profile...I would like to say that..."No one is forcing you to read what I write" so don't send me stupid messages to the effect that it is upsetting you to read what I write. You know who you are...And for God's sake learn proper english, and how its written.
It is just my belief that there are a few...okay maybe more than a few idiots out there pretending to be God's gift to the submissive. And I'm sure that you are really very nice to some one out there to have earned that belief. But your Mother's opinions don't count. But if you insist on commenting on every thing I write then I can only assume that your either my ex or just twisted in the belief that your way is the only way.
If you have issue with the "dross and drivel" I write then "WHY ARE YOU READING IT TO BEGIN WITH?"
Now with that issue is out of the way. Thank you to the lovely submissive/slave that has been writing me about the lifestyle and thank you for your input into the role you are living. I was thrilled to hear of your collaring and I thank you for inviting me to visit to see it. It was beautiful.
And on an end note for today...If I have upset anyone then please be constructive in your criticisms. I love to hear different points of views on any subject matter. But to just rant and rave over how it upsets you without offering an input on the topic at hand is counter conductive to any form of debate. And if the thought of talking with an educated woman causes you any distress then maybe you should just not look at my profile anymore. |
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7-4-14
While I have been contacted in both pro and con about my previous entry. I would like to thank the people that have messaged me with positive comments. It is nice to see there are still people out there with an understanding of sarcasm and dry humor.
It is never my intent to make others feel foolish when they truly believe..."They are all that and a bag of chips." But there comes a time in everyone's life when you need a reality check.
And to the 57 people that have sent me nasty-grams over it. They need to realize that this is still America and I do still have the "Right" to have my own opinions. Regardless of your hurt feelings and bruised egos. I didn't single out any one person when I wrote it, So if your feeling like I was "pointing a finger" (someone elses words, not mine...lol) then you must be able to understand that your still a poser and are in need of some serious training. So go find yourself a true Dominant and ask for the training your lacking and stop with all the posturing and such. Because you could seriously injure some poor sub in your ignorance.
That all being said I hope everyone has a terrific fourth of July. |
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7-1-14
It has come to my notice that there seems to be several thousand "Masters" on here. And yet they range in age from 18 - 99... ? At the ripe old age of 18 and on up what could you possibly be a "Master" of...? The only answer to that would be potty training. There is no way in any reality that a person barely into adulthood could have the life experiences to be called a Master of anything.
And to all the submissive people out there that have issues with me voicing my opinions about my outlook on this subject or any other subject I feel needs pointed out... My submission to a Dominant goes as follows...If the Dominant in question can take and hold my submission then I will gladly give it. But as I can top just about any of the so called Dom's /Master's that have contacted on this site, I will reserve the rights to freedom of speech. |
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| Age: 24 |
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