When you play with fire, you are going to get burned.  And I am extremely flammable.  Don't get me going.

I don't know why my profile is not viewable or able to be found.  I even tried creating a new profile with a new email address and it did not work. 

Very strange.  Anyone else ever have this happen?

Happy 13.

mmm yums

~An invitation to take the sacred journey to discover the truth of yourself

~Accept who you are

I met a subbie boi at a party last night.  He called me Mistress and we will contact each other again.  He kind of just knew I was a Domme.  Funny how things work out.

Wish he was sexier though.

If I am your fantasy, pass on by.  I do not wish to live in fantasies.  I only want the real thing.  Serious people only. 

One of the hottest things for me as a Domme is showing a male how his ass being used can bring him pleasure. 

This is one thing that is even very satisfying on cam for me with virgin asses.

Today, a sub I have talked with since first joining CM, was able to find this out.  I had not seen him on cam in a week or more and we started off with our usual cam chatting.  One thing lead to another and I had him with his finger in his ass and him having a very intense orgasm.  He felt bad almost immediately after orgasm, but it was because his head was spinning.  He was in shock.  He wanted to be let go off cam and chat to be able to pull himself together.

I did have concern for the tender ass and the tender sub who is many miles from me at this time.  But within 20 minutes, he was messaging me telling me how much he loved it and how sorry he was that he needed time off cam.  He said he can't wait for his ass to truly be fucked by me.

Hmm...what a lovely thought.  His moaning was so hot.  I'd so love to hear it in person.  He came a huge huge load too.

:)

Any other Ladies like showing a boi how good an orgasm can feel from his ass?  Something super powerful and lots that can be done from that point on.....

Ok, someone I have chatted with deeply over my sadistic nature tells me today that I am 'not nice' and that I 'hurt him'.

Uhm.

WTF?

I really think I hate masochists.  They are bigger whiners than regular sluts.

"Oh oh oh hurt me hurt me hurt me.  Give me pain, I can take it.  Oh boohoo, you hurt me in a way I did not agree to.  I have limits.  I have principles.  You should respect them like I respect you."

Really?  Since when?

STFU and take my SHOE to your fucking face bitch.

And no--, newbie in Aus this is not about you.  So don't go crying over this post.  ( I know it sounds a little like you, but it's not.)

I <3 boi sluts

It's beginning to look a lot like Solstice!  The snow is driving down and piling up.  Perfect weather for being around a fire and going within for introspection.

And the darkest days are among us.

At the time, my sadistic streak is strong. 

Adding your heart to My jar.

Hi, I like your mind and I think I'll make it mine.

A good dose of torture is more vitalizing in the morning than a strong shot of espresso. 

The look of anguish on the face of a male taking pain for me.....

It really gets me ready for my day! ;)

"Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do."

Think Different.

Apple

I have more men compliment My toi cock than Women....

The words of Goddess Jada Pinkett Smith:

 The War on Men Through the Degradation of Woman

"How is man to recognize his full self, his full power through the eye’s of an incomplete woman? The woman who has been stripped of Goddess recognition and diminished t

What have you become?

People becoming fake because of assuming  who they speak with on here are fake.

Or are the best D/s relationships built on fantasy and alter egoes which help each gain trust in each other to reveal the truth...?

And what is the truth?

Why did I post the story of the pussy previous to this entry?  It seems like a silly thing to do when the pussy will get a total hard on from the public embarrassment.  But, there is more to this story....

I met a young boi (21) from another country interested in submission and some kinky things.  In the early autumn, I found he had an amazing cock so he became a toi for me.  We played a couple times on cam and then he disappeared.  Typical of sluts, but I did miss the dick.  I had pics of it so I didn't really need him performing, but new scenes are always nice.

Then, after a month's absence, he came back to me and apologized for his absence and told me life had been stressful.  I told him I did not need anymore sluts and I expected nothing more from him when he disappeared.  I introduced him to collarme.com and suggested he look for a Domme there.

We chatted and it became clear we still had a connection.  He told me about Dommes he was contacting.  I realized I had dipped my boi toi into a shark tank.  One of the Dommes he thought he could like was 'mslolatu' (the one I found was fake and was a man.)  At the time, I was not convinced Mslolatu was fake, but I was convinced my boi meant something to me. 

I told him I want to take him back because his dick is mine and I don't want him fucked with by the creeps on collarme.

Seems I made a smart move.  Not surprised though.

Mslolatu is a 'domme' on My friends list, but the profile is a fake.  The creator of this profile is a pathetic male who needs to be humiliated in order to get a hard on.

The story goes as this:

'Mslolatu' contacted me asking to play a game with her sub.  Her sub was named 'coccky' and she said he started out as a dom but she got him to submit to her.  She wanted me to message coccky and make him tell me his story of how she humiliated him and a situation he had gotten himself into.  It involved her, the sub, and her dom.

So I played along even knowing it could all be a lie.  I contacted the sub to play the game. 

The sub told me, in his voice, this story of how he contacted mslolatu who was a switch, and he wanted to dominate her.  But it turned out she had a 'bully fetish' and she dominated him.  Then she subjugated him to her Black Dom who she made her sub serve.  Supposedly, she even made her sub sit on his Black Daddy's lap.

Mslolatu at the same time was messaging me telling me things to ask the sub and say to the sub to humiliate him.

Mslolatu and I had the sub practice a line asking his Black Daddy for protection from the Alpha Males.  It was all Mslolatu's idea....

So, on speaker on my computer via a voice chat service, this pussy stands on its toes and repeats some foolish nonsense about needing protection.  I made it say it over and over again in a little girl's voice.

Then I was bored with it.  It was dumb and pathetic.

But this pussy kept messaging me.  Begging for Me to humiliate it more and more. I made it create a collarme account and it is called 'cocckynomore'.

And then I became convinced that this pussy was very pathetic.  I became aware that this pussy created the fake domme Mslolatu.  This pussy orchestrated an event that had me making it stand on its toes begging its Black Daddy for protection from the Alpha Males.

I confronted it on my theory, and it admitted the truth.  It did create all of this.  Mslolatu is a fake account.  This pussy has a 'dom' account also called 'DeMeanDaGirl'.

Overall, this person is interesting to me and I will remain in contact with it. 

The lessons in this story:

1. Men are pathetic, horny idiots. 

2. There are tons of fake accounts on CM.

Deeply immersed in an intense writing project.  Thanks everyone for inspiration.  So happy the project has entered this new and exciting phase.

:)

NOT giving any details to ANYONE, so do not even ask...

Here it is -almost Christmas-- and I already have the best toi. 

I don't know what to ask for from Santa...

But I HAVE been an AWFUL good GIRL, so I am sure Santa has SOMETHING in mind.

Going for a royal soak today in the most beautiful nudist mineral springs...  Life is good....

Is there a way to stop a train? 

Yes, yes there is.  With alot of strength and determination. 

And let the trainwreck clean itself up.

It is not always easy to do the 'right' thing for the M/s relationship.  Sometimes it is down right heart wrenching.  For Me anyway.  Not sure about any other Dominants.

"To have your life be happy for you, and joyful for you, you have to have at least 8-10 things going on in your life. A lot of you may think you have to focus on 1 thing, but how often does that work for you? It doesn't because you get bored so quickly! What if that's part of the greatness of you? Your ability to do so many things, and work so much faster?"

- Gary & Dain, LIVE from the Happiness class in Noosa, Australia!

"Enlightenment is that you have all the answers. Consciousness is that you have all the questions. And ask: is this light? Is this heavy? What is light is true, and what is heavy is always a lie." - Gary Douglas

I have met some quality people here on CM.  I am looking forward to continued relationships with them.  :)

I am no longer seeking any type of relationship outside of friendships. 

Doms- do not even bother contacting Me.  you will be deleted.  Fuck off.

I need a whipping boy....My arm is craving to deliver.  If My slave was here right now, I surely would not be typing my ideas....

I do not believe there is any more beautiful piece of art than a true submissive male.

This Divine Mistress is SO happy today!! 

Her slave is under Her heel and Her sexy Frenchie slut with the hot cock is back for Her pleasure after a month off dealing with life.  Check out the lovely cock photos!!  And remember...that cock is MINE!!

http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/1691910/default.htm

MMM...I updated My photos with My Frenchie cam slut's sexy sperm stopper pic.  Talk about a cock....   ^^

Slaves are slaves and should be on their toes or on their knees and SILENT.

males, this is NOT how to treat a Mistress you are worshipping.  On display is a disrespectful male who claims he was My slave:

"hi Mistress.. how are you? i hope you are ok...i need to tell you sth...my ex mistress made a suprise to me..and she came to istanbul yesterday night.. she will come to me.. and she will stay at mefor 3 days.... i cant say her no .. becouse we had alot of nice memories.. so dont be angry to me..she made me surprise  i am sorry..."

 -designerslave

This is what happens to males like that:

I can have any slave or sub I want, and you lost your chance with such disrespect. 

Maybe you can get your ex to fuck your ass you fucking slut."

~a SERIOUSLY Divine Mistress

Had a great day torturing My slave.  Tomorrow will be even better!!  ;)

I am new to CM, but I have been a Dominant Female My entire existence. 

I believe 100% in this lifestyle as an art and an ecstasy and as a way of Being.  I take My role as a Divine Female seriously and vow to keep the lifestyle sacred.

"Matters of great concern should be treated lightly.

Matters of small concern should be treated seriously."

a quote from the Hagakure

snatched from

~crybabycry

male slave

males- if you are presenting yourself as a submissive or slave, have the common sense to read My first line of My profile in big bold letters that says I am not reviewing new applicants at this time.  you may say hello or send admiration or even request friendship to learn about the lifestyle--but any requests for consideration will be deleted and you will be blocked because you don't have the respect to read My very first line and request.

Words mean nothing until they are displayed in action. Once that happens, one simple word may contain the power of the infinite universe.

Trust in the process.

The best part of a slave?  You don't have to hear it bitching. :)

Men must be silenced.

Below is a reference to my character from a sub who is VERY lucky I care about.  He has a fantasy of having a Dominant woman.  Key word: fantasy  This dude tries to top from the supposed bottom and does not have enough free time for his ass to be welted for such behavior!!

http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/1335427/details.htm

Too good to not share!! 

"I thought you were a good person but you r just a rude woman, you r a delusion for me, I had never known a person so arrogant, rude so crude. I wish the best for u but u need to change!"

~Fredyjul

And a message to me from a Lovely Domme here on CM in response to such a pussy ass male asshole remark:

"I don't get your writer's point. He says being arrogant and rude as if it's a flaw or something. Isn't being 'arrogant' and 'rude' part of the mystique of a Domme that attracts subs to begin with? The meaner we treat subs the more they want us!!"

~MagnoliaBabe

Come on boys....We are not here for you!!!!!!!!!!  What kind of warped fantasy do you have where your Domme is a Sweet Submissive Darling?

Men have so much potential to please a woman, which is why they need to be enslaved to reach their full potential.

A little about me...

I recently joined CollarMe for the first time ever.  I have been interested in BDSM formally for seven years now.  It never was a necessity for me to search online in a community of 'like minded individuals' because I found my partners in real life and brought them into the world on my own.

My most recent D/s relationship was with a female sub.  She did not know about BDSM when we got together, and I introduced her to the world because she naturally submitted to me.

She was in training to be a slave, and I was training her in my own natural way.  I did not use bondage or impact for her training.  There was a lot more mental work with her.

May she RIP, she left our world nearly a year ago from an aggressive cancer.  I have spent this year recovering from a loss so great.

I love women, and am interested in meeting sweet sub women who are interested in Goddess training.  But, I am mainly seeking a male sub that I have a connection with.  The limits I break of his will always be targeted toward the utmost control of him for the sake of my pleasure.  In return, he has me, my guidance and protection, and my smiles.

Also, I need to stress that I doubt I can ever be fully monogamous. 

I have had someone send me a file pretending it was a pic which included a way for them to remote access my computer.  Be very aware of scum.

BDSM is very much sexual and encompassing for me.  If I don't find you attractive, I don't find you attractive.  It really is that simple.  Not everyone is a suitable match.  If I don't have a craving for you, it is NOT going to work.

I provide pics on my profile.  I know you would not have contacted me if you were not attracted.  Get your panties out of a bunch and get over it!  I cannot slap your face from here so I should not have to hear your crying either.

Oh, and have fun!  That is what this is supposed to be about.  Do not forget that.

Wall of Shame

http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/1687239/details.htm

http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/1686086/details.htm

DO NOT let my sweet personality and adorable smile make you think for one mother fucking second that I do not play hardcore.

YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU ARE GETTING YOURSELF INTO WHEN YOU LIE TO ME OR FUCK WITH ME.  DO. NOT. DO. IT.

IF I AGREE TO OWN YOU, I FUCKING OWN YOU.  INTERNET OR NOT.  YOU ARE OWNED. 

This is where I add the names of all slaves who asked to be owned by Me, were accepted, and disappeared.  May others see they are liars and may all slaves see that they shall not lie to Me.

Mazslave82