Pillars that are a part of who I am, honesty, respect, trust and obedience.
My deviant mind has some dark places's so I understand my responsibility for your feelings, safety and general well being. The use of safe words, proper ID of myself and honoring all limits will show that I care and have the experience needed to protect you.
Self control with a sense of humor. Capacity to love and be loved. Dependable and the desire to learn and grow for the both of us.
My sub should want consequences when she disobey's and know I will apply them. That I have control of myself so she confident I will handle control of her. That im well versed in techniques of play and toys. That I understand her psyche and wont see her as needy or co-dependent nor berate her as weak or desperate.
Walk into the room with no perfume or body oils as I have learned to read your posture, taste and odor. You have proven to me that your the best sub of all and I appreciate you.