A Master who is a friend of mine told me that I need to be loved or I will never become the slave I am meant to be. It made me sad because love, real love, is hard to find....but I know he didn't mean to make me sad when he said it.

 I'm no expert at statistics but I believe only about 1% of people on this site and others like it will actually find what they desire. Well, let me change that a little .. If you are here looking for fwb, playmates or someone for chat then maybe you'll be lucky. If you are looking for The One / long term relationship I believe only about 1% of us will find it and keep it. I'm sure most of you know this already and that is why when people do find the One, they are not content and they continue coming on these sites acting like a single person still talking to others ( just in case the relationship they're in fails) but if they put the effort into their relationship instead of playing online with others maybe their relationship would last. That's just my opinion and you know what they say about those....

Gemini Erogenous Zone:

Gemini's hot spots are the hands and arms. These are very sensitive regions and are very receptive a massage and a gentle touch or stroke. This also calms the high-strung Gemini and relaxes them, setting the mood for passion. Gemini's usually love their finger being sucked or nibbled, a great integration into foreplay that will heighten the mood. Gemini women love it when a man grabs their hand and kisses it, like a princess.

Sex With Gemini:

Gemini loves to experiment and sex with a Gemini is full of novelty and excitement, trying anything and everything nearly anywhere. Gemini is not for the faint of heart or the shy and secretive lovers!

Geminis seem to grow younger rather than older. Physically, you will maintain a youthful glow, and you will never lose your fun-loving liveliness. You’re really not into that 'growing old gracefully' thing.

DESIRE TO SERVE AND SUBMIT

Submission is something that is entirely personal to a sub/slave. The depth which one is willing to go varies greatly from person-to-person. There are many who want to live in 24/7; serving around the clock. Then there are those who only want this situation occasionally. This is one of the wonderful aspects of the BDSM world. It allows for great flexibility among those who are involved.

The desire to serve is something that comes from deep within one, in my opinion. Many cannot understand this aspect of a person. Obviously, this is not something that society promotes. Control and power are the qualities that it says are important. You are a success only to the degree that these are achieved. However, submission is a characteristic that is admirable. The selfless giving of oneself to another is to be cherished.

I speak often to many who are not in this lifestyle. In days past, I tried to explain the position that a sub/slave takes. I did my best to relate the experiences and feelings of those who I interacted with over the years. Yet, never was I able to convey it to these people. Simply, they did not get it. Nor would they ever. It is not something that the average person can comprehend. To them it is a foreign concept. "I would never submit to a man" or "My man needs to listen to me" are sentences I heard. These people wanted to retain the power and control.

Does this make them wrong? Not at all. These individuals did not have the overwhelming desire to serve another. My experience leads me to believe that only a small percentage of the population falls into this category. Perhaps it is a bit larger when you look at the many who lovingly serve their children. However, this is a great deal different than serving a Dom/Master. The ones who are able to submit to this degree seem small as compared to the general population.

Service is something that should be admired. We take it for granted as a quality. Sadly, those who perform that work in our culture are looked down upon. They are the ones on the lower rung of society. Choosing to live the life of a submissive is a terrific way to fulfill your inner desire. It is something that one need not be shameful about. And, it certainly is not a sign of weakness. Many make this mistake. There is nothing more powerful than one living his or her life in the way that it was meant to be. It takes courage to do the inner search to arrive at the conclusion that W/we all do. Most tend to follow the values and virtues of what society itself is promoting. To me, this is cowardice. Choose to live the life the way that your inner core tells you to. It is the path to happiness. Hopefully, BDSM is the way that provides your answer

Someone asked me this question on another site...

• So how long have you been into being a Submissive?

   

  I had to think about that for a minute, thinking it was an odd question. 

  So I finally answered that I am not INTO being a submissive, I just AM a submissive and that I am a true submissive.  I did not decide one day I was going to try it out. I have always been this way.

I was away for a while from collarme. I like so many others on this site get fed up with the bullcrap. But also like so many here I am back to see what is going on now. 

Kinda like a rubbernecker driving by the scene of a terrible accident or a spectator at a freakshow. We can't help but look.

Being in this lifestyle does not automatically mean I or anyone else is a whore to everyone who contacts them.

  Just because someone contacts me does not mean I will talk dirty, get on the phone or web cam. 

Thank you everyone. 

I wanted to add that I consider myself heteroflexible. They do not have this option on collarme. lol

Please do not try to get me on the phone for sex or phone play. I am here for something real. Thank you.