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Corsetnetlady

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I'm an actively Dominant Mistress. I live in a functioning Poly with 2 husbands (one Dominant Bi, one mostly Vanilla straight) and a I'm currently looking to create My stable of male slaves to serve My whims, needs and desires. My Husbands can shop for themselves.Any one who replies to Me is NOT required in any way, shape or form to service My Bi husband!

You may message me if you feel you can meet my requirements.
Read On.

After passing 52 I am now FINALLY playing with a full deck! This means I am now collecting Jokers.
I'm a 6 ft tall, sapphire-haired plus-sized dominant corset fetishist with an astounding grasp of the obvious. Except when people flirt with Me- that part I often miss. Feel free to be persistent; I'm not necessarily ignoring your advances... sometimes I'm just clueless. If I don't like it, I'll let you know- honest! I'll even be polite. Usually. Mostly. Maybe.
I LOVE to laugh. My world is strange enough to inspire it a lot. If you're worried about being laughed at then you better learn to laugh with. If you make Me laugh in your reply it's a point in your favor.
If it disturbs you to have a Mistress giggling whilst torturing you we won't suit at all.
I can still blush- a rare talent this century. I travel the country with (and without) My husband tying folks into corsets (which we make, no imported corsets here!) and meeting cool kinky people while our husband keeps the home fires burning and watches out for our 16 year old son.
The little dog you may see in the photos I'll upload is Pugsley, My medical alert dog. He travels with Me as well, and is way into puppy-play! He will be higher in the pecking order than you, and his collar is prettier.

At least to begin with.
I am interested in slaves who are devoted to adoring Me, having Me run their life and keeping My life ever so slightly less chaotic...I am randomly demanding; you'll love it.
Intelligent conversation is a big plus, as is literacy, a sense of humor, and a willingness to pick up after Me.
Sturdy is a definite plus... I hate the distraction of worrying about breaking My boy during playtime. Adoration and worship- I deserve it and if you're in doubt don't waste my time.
Anyone applying can expect to be interviewed in person in a fairly short period of time from introduction. This is a requirement.
Finally, I'm not interested in cyber relationship. Flesh and blood males only... whats the fun if I can't smell your pain and desire? As I am both a changing, growing and evolving human being and a merry little agent of Chaos these terms are subject to change. Be prepared for un-signaled turns. And twists. And surprises. And stuff... Often with salt water.

I am the woman your High Priestess (or Priest) warned you about.
And yes, I DO bite.
Once again, I am only interested in real life submission, not cyber!
You may message me if you feel you can meet my requirements.
Use Complete Sentences! "Sup" or "hi" and the like will be ignored. DON'T tell Me to "ask you anything". It's up to you to tell Me about yourself; I am not interested in pulling information out of you.
Come on, Impress Me.

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7/29/2015 2:23:11 PM
I'm looking for...
An Alfred to my Batman, a Bunter to my Peter Whimsey, A Jarvis to my Stark.

I'm looking for a man who finds satisfaction in anticipating my needs, who enjoys the social aspects of lifestyle BDSM, and enjoys the private ones, too.

I'd like a man who, if he doesn't already know how, is happy to learn to set the table for a formal dinner as well as grill the burgers at a kinky BBQ.

I'd like a man who is well-read, and knows the difference between debate and argument.

I'm looking for a man who isn't afraid of personal growth, and who can express opinions and requests politely and without fear. A man who is proud of he who is, and who he is with.

5/1/2013 1:16:36 PM

Rules of Slave Etiquette:

1. Listen to the Lady
2. Obey the Lady.
3. Use all your physical and mental capacity in the service of the Lady.
4. Be happy in Your work. Do whatever your Owner asks with joy in Your heart, even if it is something you do not like.
5. Be patient. It is the Lady’s prerogative to keep you waiting.
6. Be humble.
7. Do not try to manipulate the Lady.
8. Do not bother your Owner unnecessarily.
9. Speak honestly and from the heart.
10. Be realistic.
11. Be really submissive! Let the Lady take you over completely.
12. Be loyal and dependable.
13. Always offer your services if you can be of help.
14. Try not to draw attention to yourself.
15. Be polite and courteous.
16. Hold your temper and your tongue
17. Do not neglect your Owner; slaves are there to provide amusing and interesting conversation for the Domina
18. Do not be a wuss about facing up to your Mistress when you are so deeply ashamed of something you have done,
19. Take Your punishment like a good slave
20. Ladies First. Last and always!

 

A big "thank you" to slave2obey82 for an excellent list of rules! Well done!


9/29/2012 11:32:51 PM

Gentlemen, (and I do expect even slave to be gentlemen while around Me) I have a few requests and pointers.

 1. Don't expect Me to be available online just because you see that I'm "on"... I walk away from My computer a lot during the day. I'll answer as I can, when I can.

2. If you contact Me, READ MY PROFILE FIRST. If I'd be perfect "except for" whatever,  don't expect Me to change. I may not even answer.

3. If I ask you to tell Me about yourself, an essay about your vanilla life as well as your kinky aspirations will go a LONG way towards keeping My attention. Do NOT tell Me to ask you anything- thats lazy and I'm disinterested in lazy slaves.

I'm not going to spent hours at a computer weaseling your history out of you.

4.  Yes, I have a son at home. Yes, I have a slave half My age. Yes, I Am as portrayed.  I am both a screaming hot, exotic Domme and a middle aged overweight mother of 4.

4. Finally I'm not terribly computer savvy, so if My IM doesn't accept your photo exchange, it's not because of whatever nefarious reasons you may think; I just have a system that works for Me and I'm not messing with it right now. 

 

Finally, and with small hope, I ask that anyone contacting Me be real, and serious. If you just want to chat, that's fine. If you want to pretend you're what I'm looking for it's a waste of My time, and uses the time I might have spent on someone who IS what they portray.

Looking over this it's probably wasted on the types that play games; so just consider it a short rant.

*sigh*


9/9/2012 1:17:03 AM

A new sub fucked up, and I sent him a more personalized version of this. Since I don't do things for only one reason, I'm taking the opportunity to post it and let anyone who wants to sub to me understand not only what I want (see previous journal entries), but also what I expect from you if you offend me.

You can all tell I'm offended; I used the damn capitol letter protocol. ;-)

So, you Fucked Up. you pissed me off, probably by Disrespect, or Laziness, or even Forgetfulness.

I Am Not Happy.

If you bothered to read my profile you will have (or would have ) seen that I require Adoration. And Worship. One would assume Respect is implied... you requested My Dominance, My Discipline, My Will to be imposed on you.
And then you waste My time.

I Am Not Happy.

Every meeting or even chat I agree to means I am literally TAKING time from something else in My life- My Husbands, My son, My business, My friends, My other subs. your disrespect is not just to Me... it's to all of them.

I Am Not Happy.

When I tell you that you need to re-earn the right to kneel before Me DON'T start with 'i've been a bad boy and need to be punished extra hard' or something else about what extra submission you'll display while I do the work as the Top- you've already displayed a selfish streak, and I suspect your motives right now- a lot.

I Am Not Happy

Instead, consider My wishes OUTSIDE of what turns you on.
Woo My forgiveness.
Flowers, Tropical by preference, Roses if you must, a nice arrangement of Daisies in a pinch are a good start.
Delivered on your knees.
Naked , if you've checked to make sure My son isn't home- yes, he's more important than you at the best of times, and this is not the best of times.

I Am Not Happy.

Can't find flowers?
Lame, but a really nice lacy negligee in my favorite colors will do. It should look expensive; it should fit.

REALLY repentant? Flowers and a negligee. A nice dinner.
It could be worse.... I don't like diamonds.
I Love all things Hawai'ian. Once again, did you bother to read the profile, even after I told you to?

I Am Not Happy.

See what you can do to make my life easier- does my yard need work, my fish tanks need scrubbed and the water changed, does the house or dungeon need maintenance or improvement?

Questions about the above can be addressed to Bigsqueezer.
He's Not Happy either.

Convince Me I'm the center of your world. Go ahead. Try.

I Am Not Happy

You know that special scene you're so hot for? Get off your ass and do the research, learn your part, get the equipment and the props. I am NOT your servant, bitch- the traffic goes the other way.

IF I accept you back be ready for some public service and submission to me within the fetish community. I understand family and work considerations but I expect the public respect I deserve within the safety of our Leather Community; I won't be anyone's dirty little secret.

you Fucked Up, bitch.

I AM NOT HAPPY.


8/29/2012 11:18:30 PM

Enough men have asked Me about My wants and desires I've transported this in from My other site. It is not inclusive; it is what I want .... today.

You DID catch the"agent of chaos" statement in the profile, Yes?

 

Aside from offer me adoration? Hmmm... you will keep my wardrobes tidy, adore me, engage in house-boy chores, learn and perform pedicures, adore me, help organize my workspace (a little OCD goes a long way here) and correspondence, help me on the road, adore me, give massage (training will be provided as necessary) perhaps submit to waist-training, and whatever else I think of.


At Fetish events or at home you will sometimes be objectified, bound and turned into a decorative business card stand. Or a stool. Or coffee table.


You will learn to make a perfect cup of tea.


I REQUIRE intelligent conversation, witty preferred, vulgar punished.
Prepare to be educated.


Sexual servitude to be negotiated by desire (Mine) and merit (yours).


I like to bite and I have nails for a reason.

I'm NOT a puppy.


Perfectly willing to punish offenses but less interested in humiliation. A little less. Some.

I like 'Funishment".

Your fulfillment through submission and pain is like food and drink to Me. Tasty and satisfying.


I love beautiful ink and body piercing- you should expect to be ornamented if you aren't already, or to beg to be the naked-skinned slave in My stable.

Branding is a possibility but you REALLY have to earn that kind of permanent mark! Only one slave has so far.


I'm very interested in experimenting with Pony-play... I'd love to be able to drive a well-set, well-corseted stud or pair at Folsom street fair and other events.


NO Scat play, disinterested in watersports but might  require submission to weekly enemas- my slave needs to be clean for anal play- he may be required to wear various butt plugs at various times, sometimes in public.


Adoration- I deserve it and if you're in doubt don't waste my time.


NO age play- I've raised my children and get no 'thrill' out of littles.


Parts and partials of these can be negotiated and anyone interested can expect to be interviewed in person (eventually) or not at all.If you feel that any of the absolutes (except scat and littles) exclude you, you may be wrong. The only complete and utter absolute is male submission and adoration.


Finally, and one more time, I'm not interested in a purely cyber relationship. Flesh and blood real, physical humans only! I'll play online ONLY with men I play with for real!


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Mistressjane43
 
 Age: 26
 London, United Kingdom