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Hi I'm CandleWax, and I love this life.   If you are rude, or really pushy, or if you send n
Bisexual Female Dominant, 22,  Brisbane, Australia
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Hi I'm CandleWax, and I love this life.


If you are rude, or really pushy, or if you send ne a boring one line message do not expect any/a pleasant response from me.


So, I used to switch but now I exclusively Dom, submission just didn't work for me.   I'm primarily looking for real time play partners, but I'm always happy to talk to people and answer questions. (Although one of my partners and I would love to cam for people so feel free to message me.)

 I've been doing this for a while now, and I've worked out what I like.  From  a submissive I expect willingness and obedience. I am a rather harsh Dom, and very much a sadist. I love the way the body responds to pain.  In saying that, I am also a huge cuddlefan, and my Domming style is a blend of sadism and kindness, as per my mood. 


I love bondage, painplay, candlewax and anal play.  Rope bondage and fireplay are very high on my list of things I will learn, I'm making good headway with ropes, but could always use a volunteer to play on.  I am always trying new things, perfecting old things and even though I will have the final say on what goes down in the bedroom, I do my best to account for my submissives needs and desires as well.   Afterall D/s is a two way street.



"Feel safe at night, sleep with a nurse."


I do have an age range for potential play partners though, so if you're over 30 don't even bother.

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Journal Entries:
1/2/2015 10:04:50 PM
To the person who just emailed ne with an attached photo of them cosplaying the 10th doctor, please, for the love if good message me again. I accidentally deleted scrolling down on my phone and didn't catch your name

10/31/2014 6:22:57 PM
I would really like to find a masochist in brisbane to play with.   And a female sub or kittygirl.    These are my bucketlist items!

4/21/2012 3:03:16 AM

I really want a sub tonight.


To violate, to hurt, to order.



4/11/2012 10:50:12 PM

Tonight I want to fuck.

I dont want to have sex, I just want to fuck. Nice and rough and violent and non personal.

3/21/2012 3:41:02 AM

Feeling violent, horny and like a whole lot of restriction play.  Frustrating. I really need to remedy this whole 'lack of a masochist to play with' thing.

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