Hi I'm CandleWax, and I love this life.

If you are rude, or really pushy, or if you send ne a boring one line message do not expect any/a pleasant response from me.

So, I used to switch but now I exclusively Dom, submission just didn't work for me.   I'm primarily looking for real time play partners, but I'm always happy to talk to people and answer questions. (Although one of my partners and I would love to cam for people so feel free to message me.)

 I've been doing this for a while now, and I've worked out what I like.  From  a submissive I expect willingness and obedience. I am a rather harsh Dom, and very much a sadist. I love the way the body responds to pain.  In saying that, I am also a huge cuddlefan, and my Domming style is a blend of sadism and kindness, as per my mood. 

I love bondage, painplay, candlewax and anal play.  Rope bondage and fireplay are very high on my list of things I will learn, I'm making good headway with ropes, but could always use a volunteer to play on.  I am always trying new things, perfecting old things and even though I will have the final say on what goes down in the bedroom, I do my best to account for my submissives needs and desires as well.   Afterall D/s is a two way street.

"Feel safe at night, sleep with a nurse."

I do have an age range for potential play partners though, so if you're over 30 don't even bother.