I am curious and looking for someone  ;)  I have always been vanilla but need something more.  Eventually i would like to find a relationship where we could be friends first, and kinky in the sex dept. ;) .  I have an active sex drive, for those of you that think my age makes me not want it.   I am learning that some Domme hidden in here somewhere too. 

I am intelligent, though sometimes not so smart LOL.  I am widowed, retired, and like men younger than I am.  I am not rich, but I am stable and would just like to find someone for friends, some kinky sex, and possibly more. I have a few commitments so i do not want to be owned.

I have little experience with either side of me, and most of what I know is from looking at web sites, adult shops, etc.  and I would like to learn more about it.  Some of the things I have seen, I have no idea what they are for.