I'm new at this, but I'm not new at this.
In the long run...I'm a DWM Hoping to find the one that completes me and me her. A full loving D/s relationship. Due to my past being in vanilla relationships, my growing needs and realizations never had a home. That is no longer the case. Now I hope to find the right person to form a functional, realistic and mutually fulfilling relationship.
In the short run, I would love to talk with and meet people as part of a no expectations, non-financial based relationship to share and learn through experiences with like minded people of substance. I am always interested in making some new friends for conversation and ?
I have a very vanilla image and I believe in a time and place for everything and that the D/s power exchange can happen in many ways and at many levels and does not need to be contained strictly to the bedroom or sex/fetish related activities nor does it need to be overt or theatrical all the time.
I have a life outside of Collar Me, including employment, vanilla friends and a social life filled with many things I enjoy. I have a child in H.S., so 24/7/365 or my relocation is not on the table for the time being, nor is it a priority.
Chastity and giving up orgasm control is one of my major interests. Not a requirement to move forward, but I would be lying if I ignored the level of control this would be giving up on my part. Lets just say I didnt used to be ambidextrous. I have all kinds of fetish interests, not locked into any one concept. I also have lots of curiosities and would like to find a balance that would bring a sense of unity to a relationship. In the end I am more of a sensation guy, than an extreme pain junkie.
For all the fans of the collar in my photo- a special thanks to the photographer and owner of the collar, Ginger Stone, a wonderful, kind and experienced Domme here in Chicago.
Happy to share, feel free to ask.