Greetings Ive been in the lifestyle for many years most of which i spent lurking in the shadows. over the past several years ive become more comfortable in my own skin and now seek a play partner. Im currently open to all situations although at this stage of my life discretion is a must. however past that and a few utterly hard limits, the sky is the limit. im well versed in the lifestyle and practice of bdsm and many other fetish and kink activities. due to work and personal obligations travel is very difficult for me at this time so i seek primarily locals for play, however im willing to correspond online as well.  

update 12/16/2011

have found a few very intriguing ppl on this site and have made a few good friends but think i need to clarify a bit further as to what im looking for all be it a broad idea..

1. female age and body type is unimportant

2. found a new fascination with the 1950's household and its most defiantly moved its way up my list.

3. i have a very soft and loving side and am not afraid to express it  but do not mistake kindness for weakness because i can be very stern demanding and cruel when needed.

4 my ideal sub/ slave would have few to no limits due to a varied intrest in more taboo of activities however am not into blood or scat wat so ever.