Collarspace

Hi!

I am looking for that natural fit that occurs between two D/s, M/s minded lifestyle individuals who understand each other without having it feel forced, phoney, and frustrating. When you find that fit, the flow between the two involved can be quite wonderful. Not only is there the fusion of body, but also of mind and soul. I am seeking a sensual woman, a submissive female who bends more towards learning the decadence of the lifestyle, but full submission to Me, her dominant counterpart. Not equal, but balanced; the other half of the coin, where I start and where you begin, there is not separation, both of U/us will need to work in unison. As a Dom, in times of trouble I will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that O/ours is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. I am quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality.

It is very difficult to balance judging someone's intent, philosophy, approach through written word...especially when so many people have begun to use BDSM sites as a means of meeting people, rather than being involved in real time BDSM and trying to meet like minds. I seek a real/time BDSM minded woman to be My complimentary devoted counterpart through life; and, I seek her now....….you must love the loss of control. The gist of being a sub is not to know what is going to happen and being made to do whatever is required of you. Too many “subs” seek their own pleasure when the denial of a sub's pleasure and the satisfaction of the Dom is the essence of submission. It is all about the Dom, the Master.... It is not about Me satisfying your desires.....it is about you satisfying My desires. Surprise a sub, control her to do My bidding by hypnosis and discipline and conditioning and training in deprivation where she is brainwashed to love what her Dom wants to do with her mind, body and soul.

My standards in a D/s, M/s relationships are high but they are required to bring Me the sub that I desire in my life. I like harmony with a little spice. I enjoy a sub with common sense, intelligence and a sense of humor. My rules are always clear and upon accepting your position I am the only one that will change them.

Come chat when engaging dialog. Real Enquires Only Please.

Sir!