Your list of what you want a dominant to do to/for you is not welcome.  No, I do not want to watch you on cam or talk to you in IM.  I am not a fetish delivery machine.  I am a person.

I delight in strong people who give themselves over to my use. I appreciate that exposing one’s vulnerability to me is a risk and a thrill in the best of ways. It is not my desire to misuse those who place themselves at my mercy, nor do I take pleasure in degrading or humiliating someone who has risked trusting me.

I don’t subscribe to certain paradigms of power and weakness. I need not call someone inferior to enjoy his or her anguish at my hands. To engage in a dynamic of creation, joyfulness, laughter, tears and catharsis is my pleasure.

I admire elegant slavery and graceful servitude. Sometimes the most sadistic thing is expressed in a whisper.

What draws you from your protected space? Your comfort zone? What makes you wobbly on your feet and weak in the knees? To engage senses, and create experiences is my most enduring kink. What I desire most is the development of friendships of some affection, which may or may not lead to more.

I am not here to serve your sexual whims.  I am here to serve mine.  If you ask for my attention by contacting me, be sure you are up to the challenge.  Speak to me in a conversational and compelling way that elicits a narrative response.