I'm a Lover and a Fighter, Yin & Yang. I'm Chocolate and Vanilla. Well, Okay I'm NOT Vanilla! I am a very communicative person, I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I'm just a girl who lives by the hour.

I'm your friend till the end, if you know what a friendship consists of. I have learned to always believe in truth. So, if you don't want to know, then Don't Ask! Funny thing about truth, People may not like it, but they can't argue with it!

I'm a little bit eccentric, okay(a lot). I have 150 pairs of shoes and only 2 feet ... (go figure) . . . Fact: Shoes CAN Change Your Life! Don't believe me?? Just ask Cinderella, and if you still don't think the right shoes are important; Talk to Dorothy!!! My favorite flower is the Orchid. I'm strong willed, and love change, challenges, learning, and exploring anything new. I don't mind being different or standing out for what i believe in. I do my own thing, even if it doesn't always make sense to others. Oh, and I'm always at least 5 minutes late everywhere I go! (Can't help it.) lol

I believe the evidence that God exists, far outweighs the belief that he doesn't. Don't ask for an easier life; ask to be a stronger person. If you're arguing with an idiot, make sure he isn't doing the same! And if you love somebody, hurry up and show it!

I'm 55 years of experiences and hopefully many more to come! I am learning to accept and embrace truth,while taking responsibility for my actions. I've had obstacles and failures along my path, but I'll take the wisdom I've learned from them any day! If you keep on doing what you've always done, you'll keep on getting what you've always gotten. (So true)

The hardest lesson I have ever learned. . . Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what and who you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are! (More truth)

Humans are the only creatures that refuse to be what they are! My father once told me, there are 2 kinds of people; those who work and those who take the credit. He told me to try to be the first group, there is less competition. (Such a wise man!!) I dislike (a lot) when people say things like "I would never do what she did. Considering, that the speed of light is faster than the speed of sound, it's no wonder so many people appear bright, until they speak! Never look down on someone unless you're helping them up!

Remember, The most important things in life are not things; because people WILL forget what you did, people WILL forget what you've said, but people WILL NEVER forget how you made them feel.

Life is a mystery to be lived, not a problem to be solved. We're all surrounded by water, therefore; we are all in the same boat! So get over yourself, and discover what this thing we call life is really about. If you want different, do different! Then just have a little Faith.

I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well! All I can say is, You are not promised tomorrow, so live today like you mean it and Always look forward! Seriously, because if you look backwards you WILL trip and fall!

Never Regret Anything!

God Bless

Remember.. To the world, You may just be somebody; but to somebody, You may just be the world!

~submission is the key to my happiness~

No Matter Who You Are, No Matter What You Do. You Absolutely, Positively, Do Have the Power to Change . . .

A Total Power Exchange

~giving up control~

~having No Choices~

~learning discipline~

~surrendering completely~

*allowing me to become whole in mind, body and the spirit of my soul. . .*

I have been in the lifestyle a little over 16 years now and while the BDSM M/s lifestyle is a significant part of my life, it is but one component of my life, not my entire life. I've learned quite a bit about myself, having crossed paths with many extraordinary and wonderful, submissives/slaves, Doms/Dommes and Masters. Through these encounters, I have gained so much knowledge and am grateful and appreciative for each and every experience (positive and negative) that I have acquired.

I have grown within my explorations expanding my knowledge, learning with an open mind, free of judgments and prejudices allowing me a very clear understanding of exactly what it is I need and want in my life; being careful not to let my wants cloud my needs. I look forward to each day, knowing I have much more to learn as I continue on this amazing journey, experiencing and exploring all life has to offer...

I am a slave seeking a well rounded, moderated within reason, tempered with love, nourished with humor and built on trust, TPE.  Switching is NOT something that I need, want or desire to do. My need and desire is to serve NOT be served. I need a Very Dominant Master. He MUST be trustworthy, firm, strict, controlling, loving, kind, compassionate, reliable, honest and able and willing to take control, knowing when and how to push a bit further, and when enough is enough. Mind Body and Spirit. It is a huge responsibility that few have Mastered, but many have claimed. He must know that there is so much more to this than just **kinky** sex... Now don't get me wrong, while I very much love the kinky sex and all... The mental aspects involved within the Power Exchange between a Master and his slave are incredibly stimulating, and so powerful.