Life is pain. Anyone that tells you different, is trying to sell you something. That is the most important thing in my sexual life. To be taken control of and used. Sensory deprivation is part and a main focus. If I can't see or hear it coming, or can't cry out, the feeling will be that much more intense. I'm looking for a dom/master who knows the meaning of pain, what it is to put someone in pain, but create the greatest pleasure they have ever known.