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I am seeking a submissive, local to me, or willing to drive to me. I do not want an "online" or long distance relationship. I am looking for my pet. Someone I can depend on. Someone who has similar goals and aspirations. I want to explore foot fetishism. My submissive should be willing to spoil me with foot massages, pedicures, and shoes. I love heels and sadly my collection is not near what it should be. I love how I feel in heels and how it makes a submissive sees me- butt lifted, legs elongated, sexy.

You must be non-smoker, intelligent, hard -working, and gainfully employed. I am not a meal ticket. I am educated and employed in a high stress position and need someone with whom I can decompress and enjoy the simple things.

I do enjoy being pampered and would prefer a submissive who is service oriented as well as a masochist. While I enjoy inflicting pain, the emotional connection must be present. You must see pain as a reward and not a punishment- although punishment can include pain.

Please do have manners as I expect to be able to build upon common courtesy. A little goes a long way to prove oneself.

I am passionate, understanding, demanding, and dependable.

This is not a game to me.
Yes, I am one half of a Dom/Dom couple. If you have issues with that, please keep looking. Ultimately it would be nice if we could all be friends during down "vanilla" time. I'm not into games and he knows all that I do. I have no secrets and no reason to lie.

WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.
1/11/2013 3:48:42 PM

Again I have to say one-line, infantile, non-descript emails will be deleted.  Also, I am one half of couple (almost 9 years together).  He is my Dom and my best friend, I am a switch.  I am looking for my submissive who will submit only to me.  These types of relationships take time to nurture and grow and are not about what I will do for you or to you. Quite the opposite, what you will do for me, and I in turn for you during an exquisit power exchange should it ever make it  to the level. 

2/2/2012 1:42:37 PM
Life has been increasingly busy, but it seems to be calming down recently. Looking forward to a fun weekend with my man!
3/25/2009 6:40:29 AM
ONE LINE EMAILS WILL BE DELETED!!!
2/4/2009 7:01:06 AM
Ok... I guess I have to clarify.  I do not "bottom" or  submit to anyone except my Master. 

Men... If you are not submissive and respectful, please do not bother.

I am not looking for a dominant or just a play partner.  I am looking for my submissive counterpart.  The person that fulfills me by submitting to me and loving me.  I do not just "play". I want a longterm relationship with a submissive who has no issues, is not prone to drama, and is capable of being friends with my Master.  Knowing that the submissive belongs to me not "us" not him.

If you have any questions, please be respectful.
1/20/2009 12:32:02 PM
Just to clarify who and what I am.  I am a switch, but submit to only one, with whom I have been in a committed relationship for five years.  I submit only to him. 

He is completely aware of my search for a playmate and submissive partner.  This does not mean *you* will submit to him in anyway unless negotiated by all.  *I* am selfish when it comes to my pet.  I don't share well with others unless it is right for all.  I am caring to a fault when someone trusts me with their submission.  As one who enjoys both ends, I truly do understand what a gift submission can be and that you place person and well being in the care of your *top*.
6/17/2008 10:45:34 AM
Getting ready for vacation!!! Woohoo!!! Cannot wait to hit the Gay Porn shops in Rehobeth, DE for new toys... they always have the best!!!  It is sooo time for some R&R!!!
5/28/2008 7:32:21 AM
I have been slacking on my journal entries because I have been so busy.  The sounds are wonderful. I have been able to use them thrice thus far, but would love to use them on my "forever" slave.  Where are you????

I will reiterate my desires... be honest, open to new experiences, public play is a must as I love the local dungeon.  Thanks again Cecil for a wonderful scene and wonderful time.  One line emails will be ignored.  I want my sub/slave to be my best friend as well as sub.  High pain tolerance would be nice as I like long extreme scenes, but I am also like to be sensual and sexual.  I am a balanced person... you be too.
5/6/2008 5:50:56 PM
I received my two new sets of urethral sounds yesterday, even got to try out the Pratt set.  So much fun.  Now if I only had a sub of my own to use them on. 
4/23/2008 5:51:28 AM
To clarify what I am looking for....
either a male or female submissive/slave who is capable of taking care of him/herself.  Educated, well-spoken, polite.  Must be into public play at times.  Into needles a plus.  I love all toys such as floggers, birches, canes, paddles, etc., please be too.  I am sensual, but can be a sadist as well. 

Also, if you are bratty or have major baggage, please move on.

I would eventually love 24/7 as much as is possible with normal day to day activities.

If you are still interested after reading this, email me... let's talk.
4/21/2008 6:35:05 PM
What a blast!!!! Turning 30 is just the beginning.  A new decade, new fun, new playmates, new dungeon, and new toys!!!!!

Thank you to the Woodshed for making it the best B-day ever!!!!
4/15/2008 7:36:44 AM
Life is good and quiet... just the way I like it.  Looking forward to Angels and Demons (or is it devils) at the Woodshed this weekend.  Time for some playtime.
4/8/2008 10:53:12 AM
Ok... time for another update.  I am looking for love, not sex, not playtime (although those will be in the future for the one I ultimately choose).  I have all the subbie friends I need for playtime.  I am looking for my companion, confidante and the "one" who will wear my collar.  I do not take this lifestyle lightly.  Please be real. No games. No jokes.  Also, I AM POLY.  If you think you can win me over to leave my partner, you are wasting your time.  YOU must be willing to accept this and not be the jealous type.  If you are the jealous type, or think you can win me over... you will be weeded out, blocked and deleted.  I am not trying to be mean, just don't want to waste your time or mine.
4/5/2008 1:39:35 PM
Well tonight is a peaceful night on my own... barring a friend calling me last minute to meet up ::sigh:: If only I had that perfect sub to play with tonight.  To all those respectfully applying for that position, thank you for your friendship and faith in me as person and as a Domme.  I will attempt not to fail you as either.
3/28/2008 4:44:33 PM

I just want to make a point that I am looking for a female submissive as much as I am a male.  I am more of a sensualist versus a sadist (to a certain extent, as I do like a warm pink bottom to look at and pinch).

3/26/2008 1:02:00 PM
I have added three new pictures, let's see how long they take to get approved.
I really am trying to keep up with this journal as it seems to be bringing the right people my way. 
Here's a little more about what I am looking for in a submissive:
Local
Wants to enjoy public and private scenes
Likes tattoos
Wants to spoil me (not just buying my attention)
IS SINGLE... this is nonnegotiable

I am looking for longterm commitment and REFUSE to be the other woman!!! Again, this is NONNEGOTIABLE.

I will not tolerate rudeness, sexual innuendos from those I do not know, nor will I tolerate threats.  I am not trying to be rude, I just firmly believe inthe Golden Rule (no, not Golden Showers).  Treat me as you would like to be treated because that is how I will treat you... exactly how you have treated me.

Now that I have vented, it's time to do some shopping.
3/25/2008 11:36:43 AM
Yet another day... thank you to those of you who have shown interest.  Please be patient as I sift through my emails.  I like to take my time and give each one the attention (or lack thereof) it deserves.

I would prefer a picture attached to an email if you are sincere in your interest in pursuing a relationship with me.

To all of those who have had kind words to say.... thank you... it is people like you who make this lifestyle special.
3/24/2008 12:13:59 PM

I am going to give this a try.. no promises of how often I will update as my life is very busy and I am loving getting back into the swing of the public lifestyle.  I took a little break in order to continue my education and move to my own little piece of heaven.  Life is good.  Now I just need that submissive someone to share it with.

LadyBotticelli
 
 Age: 24
 Zamboanga city, Philippines