4/28/2023 2:04:35 AM: Is being honest worthwhile? So once again I find myself questioning my upbringing, use of manners and being open and honest.  A good conversation started but as normal soon stalled due to my honesty in the questions being asked.  Why is it that people are here looking for certain attributes in both a person and scenario and as soon as the finer details are discussed then it all comes to a stuttering halt? I have no issue with people being reticent to give out too many details too quickly, but it seems the conversation starts with a full decriptive dump of what the other person wants. Little time spent getting to know the person before you and so when the finer details are discussed then it all becomes an issue.  Hence, is it worthwhile being honest?  Let me know your thoughts. Be seeing you. 

9/18/2022 3:29:37 AM: What is wrong with people? So once again I find myself here, trying to fathom out what has happened. A certain someone from here has decided that after a protracted conversation my being polite and making sensible concessions is my being not what they seek. Honestly. This is who I am, manners cost nothing yet form the basis of my being.  I use them in everyday life and conversation and they have served me well.  Yet here once again I am faced with them being seen as negative. Where are the people on here who want to be treated like real human beings, with respect, honour, and morality? If my being me and using manners is going to offend then step away. If my asking questions is not for you then don't approach. If I want to build trust and you don't then look elsewhere. Rant over!

1/10/2017 5:41:21 AM: Deleted unreadWhy of why do people do this? They invite contact and then when a respectful message lands they simply ignore it.Maybe my use of manners and proper language are the stumbling blocks, who knows?Annoyed!

10/13/2016 2:24:32 AM: A fun time had ...So I have managed to get my things together so to be able to get out and spend some time with someone I have not seen in a long long time. A pleasant evening and one I hope to be able to repeat, to build upon and to take forward.Such fun to let the old me out for a glimpse of what it has missed.You know who you are, a big thank you!

6/6/2016 3:36:32 AM: And so another one slips by ...So what is it with people?  You start down a path on the journey to engage someone new, a person with ideas, ability, experience and the resources to make happen what they seek.You spend several frantic weeks bringing it all together and then ... it all falls apart.A submissive who seeks so much and yet when it comes to the point of putting in to practice all that has been discussed they simply turn and run. A conversation ensues, they return, we start once more and at the renewed point of contact the very same happens.Now I am not foolish enough to realise this happens but this person is not a player but a real known individual, scene aware etc etc. Why do I pick them I wonder ???