I am a naturally dominant male who is psychologically, intellectually and emotionally balanced and in control of all aspects of my life (personally and professionally).

I am single, a non-smoker (other than an occasional Cigar), very rarely drink (a glass of Scotch to go with the cigar),I do not do drugs, and I am disease free.

I did not post a picture of myself for professional privacy reasons.

I am primarily looking to build a long term Ds based relationship. Dominance and submission will be in every aspect of the relationship.

The commitment, control and sense of belonging of a Master and slave, Owner and property relationship with the vanilla everyday responsibilities and guidance of a Head of household, 1950s style or Taken in Hand type of relationship, and the protective and nurturing of a DDlg relationship (to clarify I am NOT into age play). Unlike purely BDSM relationships, the type of relationship I am looking for is strictly real life rather than consisting of negotiated scenes. While many BDSM activities take place mostly within the bedroom or the Scene (parties, clubs etc.), this relationship would place a great deal of emphasis on everyday vanilla. I feel the ultimate benefit of this type of symbiotic relationship is in fostering peace, harmony, closeness and trust while satisfying the dominant and submissive wants and needs

Intellectually stimulating conversations are always welcome.

A few quotes I like:

I believe a whispered word can have a greater effect than anything said in a loud and overbearing manner and a single gentle touch can have a stronger impact than any pain inflicted.

We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself.

Seek those who find your road agreeable, your personality and mind stimulating, and your philosophy acceptable, and your experiences helpful. Let those who do not seek their own kind.

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.

Not all who wander are lost.

Life isnt about waiting for the storm to pass. Its about learning to dance in the rain.




I do not spend a lot of time on this site and will sometimes go quite awhile between visits here. If we connect, I have no problem moving conversations to a different venue. We will start with conversations here , then email, phone conversations, leading to video chat and ultimately meeting in real life .