I'm looking for my perfect girlfriend, someone to spend my life with. That means dating and getting to know one another, shared interests and a general happiness to enjoying each others company. You will have a submissive personality and like to keep kink between the two of us rather than share it with the world. Experience is irrelevant. Honesty and willingness to please is far more important. To the right girl I hope we will have a long, loving, trustworthy and happy life together.

I don't particularly like labels as they imply a relationship falls into one of a small number of categories, but I believe they are unique to the people involved. However, to try and give you an idea of what I hope for the future, it's a mix of taken-in-hand, obedience training, some S&M, some 1950s housewife, generally being my good girl. I like little traits in a sub, but I don't consider myself a Daddy-dom. I'm very approachable though, and happy to talk. I want to look after you and make you feel safe and happy.

It's quite impersonal, but it's probably quicker to list some things I like and don't like. If you think you are interested in the same things then feel free to contact me (please start your message with the words "Seek me" so I know you've actually read my profile! :) If you're a bit shy then feel free to just send those two words and I'll get back to you. I know girls get inundated with junk messages so it's far easier if you send the first message.)

Some things I like (so you have an idea):

• A natural female sub (I'm straight). You might be straight or bi, but should prefer a male Dom/Master.
• Collars and gags - there's nothing quite like a girl in a big thick collar and a ballgag that barely fits.
• Bondage - I like tying you up, so flexibility and stamina will be helpful, but obedience is more important to me.
• Masochistic (at least to a point). I like watching you squirm while I hurt you, pull your hair, spank you, put pegs on you. But no permanent damage (see below)
• No baggage (well, everyone accumulates _some_ baggage simply by being alive. Just so long as it doesn't affect our relationship).
• Proper grammar/punctuation!
• Appearance - there's no point sugar coating it, there has to be an attraction. I generally like shorter girls, long hair and I like boobs :)
• Consent - I don't dominate until you choose to submit.
• Toys, cuddles, hugs, kisses, presents, fun times, days out, evenings in and all the things you would expect from any relationship.

Things I'm not interested in:

• Anything illegal. That includes children, drugs, animals etc.
• Tattoos, piercings and brandings. Small discreet tattoos maybe, but I prefer the plain natural look. Not interested in tongue studs, nose rings, pierced belly buttons etc.
• Age play (nappies etc)
• Blood play. Knives etc. I'm not into making you genuinely scared for your life, nor into anything that has a high chance of turning into something life threatening.
• Munches - just never really been interested in the social side of a D/s relationship. I like it just between the two of us.
• Scat. (ugh)
• Abuse or Coercive control.
• Smoking. Hate the smell. Hate everything about it.
• To cause any serious or permanent injuries.

I'm single, about 5'10" tall, slim, black hair, usually with a short beard. No children, non-smoker with my own house and car. I'll happily exchange pictures privately. I'm very patient and polite (eg. I'll likely hold the door open for you when we're out - I don't care if that doesn't sound "Dominant", it's just me) but if I tell you to do something I will expect you to obey (once we've established boundaries of course!).

It's not just about kink though. I want to find someone to just spend time with too. I enjoy plenty of other activities and it would be nice if you're interested in at least some of them, but I don't mind if we both also have our own things that we don't do together. I like Formula 1, badminton, computer games, walking, days out, playing guitar, jogging, comedy shows, board games, puzzles, talking, music, singing, sleeping, bowling, karting and probably loads of other things I can't think of just this moment :)