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i am new to this lifestyle and i am always looking to know more!

i am a submissive male and I value intellectual connection the most and i am always after dynamic women who value the same thing.

I found in my early twenties about my submissive nature. I always dreamed of being a puppet for an older than me Lady, serving her, making fun of me etc. Though these fantasies were very immature and naive since i was a child. After 18 or so when i had my first sexual experience, i fantasized even more obscene scenarios, and with time i had a very SM repertoire of fantasies. The bad part is that they remained fantasies, since i havent found a Lady that can share my need of serving and submitting. My belief is that through time, training, hardship and even love, you submit yourself, you destroy your ego, and you are being molded into the perfect servantslave of your Lady. As i said it takes time, it require sacrifices and time investment from both sides, and last but not least it requires CONNECTION mentally. I cant think myself of submitting to a Lady i dont respect, revel,adore. A Lady with manners,sophisticated, style, class and a serious and dynamic personality were always my first priorities in finding my ideal partner. I cant also fantasize myself with a Lady that we dont share interests or cant support a mature and leveled conversation. I love women with opinion, being articulate and educated. I am also very educated and i cant connect with a person that cant mentally fuck me.