2/12/2018 6:49:13 PM: I have found that men today are a mere shadow of what they were in days gone by. I see it every day in the vanilla world, and it glares me in the face every day in the world I work in. Think about and ponder this for just a second...look at photos of men 20..30...40 years ago...average men...and look at average men now...there's always exceptions but there are alot of trends you will notice. Men of yesteryear, (and some men of today..myself included)..we're utilitarian in nature. By that I mean that their clothes and personal appearance reflected a purpose. They wore a hat for weather, a watch, maybe a ring, a belt, and probably a small knife and keys, and a wallet. Everything had a PURPOSE. He could solve things, fix things, etc...The average guy of today has rings, skinny pants, necklace, piercings, a damn hair bun, glasses he doesn't need because he assumes it makes him look intelligent, and many other useless things. Everything is there for ADORNMENT...no purpose...that may sound insignificant at first blush...but think about it, and what it means for the way men now think..look at their vehicles...same trend..A lot of men are not only NOT dominant anymore, they're feminine...just my opinion

8/19/2017 8:37:28 PM: I have been on this site for less than a week and I have to say I'm a little confused. Let me give you my take on what a Dominant male should be...Financially secure and proactive, independent and safe. I have seen and chatted with some 'doms' on here that cant take care of themselves...so how the hell are they going to care of another? Listen guys, I'm sure theres alot of you out there that are legit, but to the ones that are experimenting or simply looking for kinky sex...thats not how it works. Being in a D/s relationship is a responsibility, and one that must be handled with the utmost of respect and attention. Submission is a GIFT, not a demand from YOU. Until your submissive has the time and desire to respect you, never....EVER say the words 'on your knees'. Thats not how it works. Respect...and having the title Sir is earned...always....never just given. I have been in charge and have the responsibility to protect and train over 400 men....I HAVE to be dominant...I'm also dominant inherently...and I simply refuse to allow anyone that doesnt know me to call me sir...in time, and after they know who I am and what I stand for, that will happen. It is the very same with a submissive woman, even more so....that is the one person you should vow to protect, train, explore, and grow with....