Collarspace

Im searching for my equal. If the fun is in the chase I want to spend my life racing with someone. One who can close every loophole and catch every infraction. One who can battle with the mind and then take it through to the bedroom.

I have been on the scene for around 5 years, mostly privately but recently more publically. I associate with brat, but only because I felt obliged to pick one word from a list that doesnt quite have one right fit. Not naturally submissive, but I love to please. I want to make you smile and I want you to deal with me when I fail. Someone who can shut me up with a look but also care for my needs in a way that, if you didnt know, it would be difficult to see. I want someone who can encourage me to be the best me I can be, using any tools at their disposal.

For me the most important qualities in a dom are
Intelligent
Quick thinking
Organised (at least in the context of DS)
Outgoing
In control (Yes, eventually of me, but most importantly of yourself)
Willing to put others needs first.

I want my own version of the fairtale, I dont want to be rescued. I want someone who can learn me and know when to call for a night off with chocolate and tv and when to beat my arse or make me get up off it.

In terms of me, I can be highly motivated but also very lazy and I sometimes need someone else to take the role of my self control which seems to be mysteriously lacking at times. I like to be busy, but if Im not busy or challenged enough I can easily waste a day. I like to take on challenges, or at least I enjoy the feeling once I have. I am studying for my doctorate degree, and this follows the same pattern as the rest of my life.

More generically I love exploring the beach, I have a fun side that still loves flying kites and penny falls. I dont want to loose that side of me, the side that works so hard to keep things fun and make people smile. I do like my red wine and in the last few years have drank bottles that have utterly ruined a cheap glass of merlot down the pub for me. I also love animals and generally have had at least one bundle of floof with me at any stage of my life. I would like to do more intelligentengaging things but I can bore easily and have very little general knowledge and common sense which has meant my attempts at things such as quizzes or museums have generally not gone well.

Long term I hope to be able to find someone local to Kent or potentially london who fits into both my kink and vanilla world. Drop me a message if you feel you fit into this or if youre just in my age range, local and kinky.

If you message me straight away asking for limits or pictures youre unlikely to get a reply. I want to know I like someone and know that it could be worth my time exploring them as a person before getting into the kink. Ive recently changed my profile and am in the process of moving to Canterbury so if you have messaged in the past and I havent got round to replying deel free to drop me another.

P.s. yes there is a star over my face. Id rather not have my face out there for all to see but wanted to show I am real!!