Currently living in the northern United States.

I am no longer seeking anyone or anything. Just here for old friends and possibly to find a few new ones. Open to a mentoring role to any side of the dynamic. Quite a lot of things that one person can do to another for sexual gratification, I've experienced, and often both giving and receiving. After all, if you can't take it, don't dish it out. 

I am approachable, easy to talk to, polite and well behaved. These things are consistent about me regardless of the nature of the conversation.

I am searching for real life though starting online is fine. 

I like to travel, experience new things, and generally see the world near and far.

Like any dominant male, I have my own tastes and hungers. My hope was that, through CS, I would find someone who mirrored those tastes and hungers. That someone would have craved for the strength and stability of a deeply traditional way of life and in an ideal world, we would have created and shared a life and home based on those values, and raised a family.

Well that was the dream anyway, but for various reasons it just wasnt to be. I thought I had it but I was wrong, about many things as it turned out. 

I enjoy talking, listening, sharing, teaching and guiding. I am wholly open-minded, keep the secrets of others as if they were my own, and honoured by those who trust me so deeply. Even if you feel guilt or shame or fear, there will be no condemnation or penance or even disapproval to come from me.

I see dominance as a responsibility beyond simple self-gratification. In my experience, mental domination is best achieved through acknowledging and controlling the physical responses. The mind must rule the body, must understand the emotions and sensations felt and what lies behind them. Arousal is also a very useful means by which barriers are eroded and defenses dismantled.

Too often we are internally conflicted by the person we are, compared to the person we ache to become. Too often we make the mistake of seeking acceptance from others because we cannot find it in ourselves. What you crave to receive you first learn to recognize by giving. Anything else is futile because, simply put, you wouldnt be able to tell if you got what you craved or not, it would be so unfamiliar.

I use Skype.

I am indifferent to cams but hearing the person Im talking to is essential. Text is fine for ongoing discussion, but if youre not prepared to talk and to do so fairly soon after initial contact, then our values are likely too different for a connection.

You have to understand that whatever secret and shameful and forbidden desires hide in your heart and soul, all of it is possible. All of it awaits you. The purpose of a life is simply to find that path, to constantly seek your place and purpose. It is not to turn away or give up or water yourself down. The passion and need and hunger that beats within you is rare and precious, but it is also a burden. Its hard to feel such intensity in a world that often seems like it would rather you didnt feel anything at all.


But the truth is, sometimes there should be no middle ground. That is the discipline of it, the test of it. Nothing truly worth having is easily attained. It comes with a heavy cost. Sacrifices must be made in many ways and in many degrees. Some you have already experienced, others you have felt but not confronted, still others are a mystery.


But remember, you are not looking for Him so much as trying, desperately, to find YOU. He is not the prize here you are. You crave fulfillment of your potential and your inner self. Of finally finding the place you belong and the purpose you serve. Of knowing who truly looks back at you from the mirror.


He will help you get there. He may show you the path. He may be by your side when you walk it. But it is you, and only you, that will know when your journey is at an end. Then, and only then, do you hold within you all youve searched for and fought to reach.
Only then do you know where you belong and what you were meant for. Only then does the true knowledge and truth of your life belong to you.


And only then do you turn, kneel, and offer all of yourself to his service. That is the beauty in sacrifice. That is pure and sacred submission.