9/11/2017 12:04:35 AM: I know a lot of girls here now. Many of them come on frequently, I see them online here all the time. They want to escape to a new life, to be taken away from their boring lives. But when I follow up with them months or even after a year, nothing has happened. This is just their escape, it's all in their minds, they have to way to go to a sub/slave situation that they envision. It will never happen. It's just entertainment for them to dream here. I feel sorry for them. They continue to live their boring lives, and THAT is what's really hurting them. They are full of shit. They don't understand themselves. Better to change your circumstances than wish for something that will never happen. Life is short. Most of these people will still be the same in five years. Change your mind and your life will change. 

9/10/2017 4:34:35 PM: Seriously, NO ONE is 'born this way.' Everyone is made. You have things you think you need, but what you have is patterns. Patterns can be broken. 

9/10/2017 3:49:01 PM: She who knows everything has no need to ask questions. An open mind is a rare find. WHY are you here? If you say 'I'm not really sure, but I have a few ideas,' that's a sign of intelligence, maturity, and potential. There are far too many girls here under 25 years old who think they know exactly what they want for the rest of their lives. They are wrong. 

8/26/2017 7:34:54 AM: Men who beat and inflict pain on women are immature, insecure, and stupid. Playing is one thing, bondage and teasing and a bit of torture for fun can add to sexual arousal and increase the intensity of the experience. But a true punishing sadist dom is simply either a very damaged victim of his own pattern of abuse or an asshole who can't cope with the outside world. As a sub, you have a past and a choice. You can let your past determine your future, you can continue to be a victim and reinforce your old patterns - or you can come to terms with it and start building a new woman from scratch. If you are interested in the second choice, contact me respectfully. I'm not better than you are, but I'm probably a lot smarter.

8/8/2017 1:49:03 PM: Revenge does not taste like blood. A lot of young women who have had difficult pasts don't realize this. They are stuck in their victim pattern, not thinking about their future.