So, I'm slowly starting to look, so I'm gonna add a bit more info. I'm no new and shiney dom. I've got my scars from my own mistakes as well as ex lovers. I've been in the lifestyle knowingly for 12 years, but my natural inclinations have been longer.

I'll get into my kink oriented likes below, and deal with the sapio up here, capishe?

I am first and foremost an intellectual. I do dumb stuff constantly, I love gaming, I dress down constantly, but you can ask anyone that when it comes down to it I can go toe to toe in intellectual discourse and theory in my Dark Souls tee and torn up athletic pants.
That being said, I'm no prude. I come from a very humble upbringing, and put little value in money. I'm not homeless, don't worry. But I put more value into learning to build things by my own hands, grow my own food (even if I don't eat it), then I'll ever put in the mighty dollar. So long as I can cover my essential bills, I'm good. If that's not your cuppa, I can respect that but we won't get along outside of friends.
I am possessive and strict. I expect my rules followed as best as possible. I do not expect perfection itself, just the pursuit of. My family is my life, and that encompasses both romantic and friends.
I am seeking someone of the slave type mentality, meaning 24/7 TPE. I do believe that such a mentality can reside along side with other modifiers (yottsu is a little and a slave, for example). I love few things as much as seeing someone crave, love, and obsess over serving. I only date cis- women, thank you.
I am in a closed poly relationship, meaning there are no relationships outside of the whole. Yes, I have a one penis policy, and if you don't like it carry on. It's not for everyone but I'm quite fine with my little harem thank you kindly. I seek compersion, loving seeing others you're with happy, in my partners.
While this may all seem daunting, I actually thoroughly enjoy teaching people. I'm not at all against newer members of the lifestyle, as I am open to experienced ones as well. In my opinion we never stop learning, and there's no shame in learning from people on the other side of the slash as well.
I pretty much suck at writing these things. If there's specific questions, feel free to PM me. I don't bite right away, I just fumble towards you quickly with my awkwardness. Taa.