Collarspace

Since this site apparently doesnt update your age, I was born in 1974. Do the math. I cant believe I actually got the name TopBanana! Score! Im not very dominant or aggressive in my regular life, nor am I submissive. Im actually very nice, intelligent, honest and even tempered, on the nerdy side, and I have a great sense of humor. I view women as equals and treat them as such. Probably like most men, Ive always had fantasies of taking a woman as a willing slave, or slaves. Im not sure how much of this I need to incorporate into my life. Its not my only proclivity and like I said, Im here to explore. If that makes my a tourist, then so be it. Im actually getting pretty sick of labels. Im just looking to get the most out of my life in whatever ways feel right to me, and if other people want to put me in a category or exclude me from one, I really dont care. Maybe this will just result in some BDSM play, or some very rough and hard sex, or maybe it will develop into some kind of full on long term ds relationship, or just a relationship, who knows? Im open to a pretty wide spectrum. While I admittedly dont have very much experience as a dom at this point, what I can offer is absolute honesty, trust, and very good sex. I know BDSM is not all about sex, but Im not looking to be denied sexually, nor do I wish to leave any woman unsatisfied, even in it means denying her orgasm if thats what she wants, as long as she can outlast me. Im in good shape, and for a man of my age I look very youthful, and I could pass for much younger. With the nature of the internet and the myth of complete anonymity, Im just not posting my face here, but I will send face pics to anyone I contact, or anyone Im interested in who requests them.

Im an artist and photographer, and I teach computer graphics, that last one is what actually pays the bills. Im a creative, sane, intellectual, more on the bohemian artist side of the spectrum. Im definitely the jeans and tee-shirt type,although Im hygienic,well groomed, clean shaven.

Anyway, hopefully theres enough here for you to decide whether or not further communication is desired. Of course Im much more interested in meeting in the real world then endless back and forth emails. I think most people online, including myself, are way too chicken shit about this. Its just a meeting and a conversation. You may not like me, I might not like you, we might not like each other, get over it!