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*Very important note I am ready and willing to relocate. Please dont consider my location when reading my profile.*

Just a smalllll townnnn girrrlllll, living in a loooooonnnllyyyy worrrlllllddddd!

Ok, well, not really. But the song was stuck in my head...and probably yours now, too... D

Im not lonely, at all. I actually have a super active and busy life, full of friends (AKA chosen family), hobbies, a job I love, advocacy, and the best dog in the world. Lonely and bored would be antonyms for me, most definitely.

However, I am kinky. To the core. Not the oh, lets get fuzzy handcuffs for the bedroom kind of kinky. The lifestyle, I should belong to someone, its part of my everyday life, I dont know how to do relationships without it kind of kinky. It doesnt turn off when my feet cross the bedroom threshold into the hall. In fact, without kink, youre unlikely to get me into said metaphorical bedroom in the first place. It is an innate and unchangeable part of my relationship and sexual personalities.

The sort of person Im looking for is Dominant by nature. No, I dont mean a jerk by nature. Please know the difference, because I definitely do! Im not new to kink or even the BDSM scene. Ive been active for years, led groups, played regularly, dated briefly, taken and taught classes, the whole shebang. Ive known enough kinky people to be able to spot predators and inexperienced, unsure Doms from across a crowded room. If this is your first foray into power exchange, I wont be the one to show you the ropes, as every new Dom likes to say and then snicker at their tiny puninnuendo.

Aside from kink, Im a cheerful, active, successful, mature, happy, sometimes giddy, intelligent, morally intoxicated, bisexual, well dressed, articulate woman who knows what she wants and doesnt settle. If youre the white knight type, and looking for someone to save, Im not her. Put your white horse back in its stable, and your armor back on the mannequin. I am absolutely capable of standing on my own two feet, which I feel like makes me all the more victorious for someone to own.

The person Im looking for would be a responsible, single (or at least poly and without a primary), undoubtedly and naturally dominant, attractive, successful, articulate, person who leans towards Ms in their relationships. A lot to ask for, I know. But I offer many things of value in return.

Should anything Ive said her strike your fancy, please send me a message. Anything written to me respectfully and with substance will receive a response.

*please pardon any typos and missing punctuation. The site seems to be eating it like my dryer consumes socks.