I like my partners to be unattached (not married or separated) and in control in the bedroom. I love sex, but more so connection, touching, new sensations... I am interested in positions that will allow comfort, as well as maximum effectiveness, as I have a condition that makes it a bit difficult for me to relax and let go. I prefer one-on-one sex with the full focus and attention of my man, but wouldn't mind trying it with another man in the room - two of everything touching me sounds like a dream. I'm new to the lifestyle and look forward to trying bondage (ropes, especially), blindfolds, nipple clamps/cups, wax, mild to medium pain (spanking/paddling/flogging), orgasm control, anal, and oral (I like give and take).

 I don’t want a relationship, they hold you back. I want a best friend I can sleep with, make love to, hustle with, travel with, shop with, club with, and live with. I want a partner in crime, a life partner. Someone that I can laugh with and build with. Somebody that I can trust with my heart, my money and my life. Somebody I'm not afraid to lose because I know they'll always be there. Relationships just aren't for me, but a partnership - I'll take that!!

My Ideal Person A strong, attentive, caring, intuitive, positive, commanding, man who knows how to slowly take both of us "to infinity and beyond" in our sex play. As a BBW, I understand body issues; but, to be true to my desire, I must say that I long for a well sculpted man who is beautiful and intelligent on the inside, as well. I want to be stimulated physically and mentally.