3/17/2013 1:15:09 PM: Another silly sounding Japanese song that brings me a bit of happiness.  There's no deep meaning here.  It just sounds like fun.  ^^ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HlPYf75uTLg

3/4/2013 12:27:59 PM: Please, if you're going to send me a message, put some thought into it.  Sometimes I can get around a short message if a person has a nicely written profile, but for most of you this isn't the case.   I'm not lusting after women.  I won't chase you down and make you talk to me.  If you want to grab my attention and keep it, show me you're making an effort.  Showing effort isn't necessarily writing a long message, but taking the time to write the best message you can.   I'm not in a hurry.  If it takes you a few days to get back to me I'm not going to explode or send you any nasty notes.  I didn't sign up to spread negativity or to get attention by making people feel bad, and I'm not going to do that to you.   If you truly agonize over every word and can't manage to send more than a few sentences, I will treat every word dearly, but do let me know you're trying.

2/20/2013 10:16:56 PM: Since I am more or less trying to learn how to draw silly things to amuse my potential significant other, there is a chance that I will randomly send people some corny drawing if something in their profile strikes me as cute.  They are, however, genuinely drawn by me and each one is unique.  If I just zipped off the same doodle to everyone it wouldn't count as practice, and I wouldn't be learning anything.

12/10/2011 3:21:13 PM: Think we're a match?  Take this pointless test! Can you listen to this entire song without thinking there's something seriously wrong with me for thinking it's awesome?   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1HjGNouDgQI

12/9/2011 5:39:04 PM: I was going to put this into my profile, but like a square peg in a round hole, it just doesn't seem to fit anywhere without a rewrite.  Here's the evidence I'm too lazy for that right now.   To people I meet, I don't come across as very dominant.  I'm no 'alpha male' and if I find the genie's lamp, I'm not wishing to be one.  It's enough to make people (and myself, sometimes) wonder why I've made a profile on a kinky dating site full of fraudsters.   For starters, strangers are entitled to a certain degree of respect, no matter who they are.  You may be willing to forgo that respect, but I don't know that and making an arrogant assumption is not my style.  If you want to be treated a certain way you're going to have to let me know.  If it pleases me to do so, I will execute your request.  If it doesn't, I'll politely tell you so.   The 2nd issue is that I tend to distance myself from people in general.  As part of this function I do not ask anything of anyone whom I do not know and like.  Getting to know you takes time.  Weather I like you or not depends on your openness, honesty, reliability, and effort, for the most part.  Of course, there are a myriad of other factors, but these weigh in the most.   A 3rd reason I might not come across as dominant is that it's something I only find enjoyable when it involves the person who holds my heart, and I'm pretty stingy about giving it away these days.  The execution of a command has value in proportion to the amount of love I can see put into it.  I can't stress enough that I'm looking for someone I can love.   Lastly, I don't tread deeply into particular fetish territory.  I don't like blanket statements like 'You must do/be XYZ'.  People are more complicated than that.  I especially don't want to exclude a person who can't do something because they're crippled, or have some other health condition that prevents them from doing something or another.  The important thing to me is that I find someone willing to do everything they can.  If a person feels regret over what they can't do for me, then I take in those feelings and turn them into warmth, because that regret is an expression of their love for me.