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ExpertSadist
Hetero Male, 43, SuburbiaofDC, Washington D.C. 
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 03/20/24

August 2018

Summer is busy and I am not on here that often. If you write to me, please allow a few days for a reply. I welcome emails from confident female masochists who likewise value an experienced and confident sadist. Good conversational skills are a plus, because SM is not just about getting beaten hopefully you already know that.

A cool quotation

Life is always either a tightrope or a feather bed. Give me the tightrope. Edith Wharton



June 2018

Given the way things are here on CS, I am beginning to wonder if it is even worth posting a profile and any images anymore. I suppose it is necessary to at least help ensure some sort of initial email exchange, but profiles and pictures really are very static and limiting.

The journals which used to be available are now closed off. I completely understand the reasons why the site owners did that and have no issues at all with their decision. The change however again underscores how profiles nowadays are such a tiny peek into what a person is all about.

I am a confident, social, and very outgoing person, and that simply does not come though in any written profile. Youd never gain that impression from a few paragraphs. I am also very private for professional and career reasons. I suppose if I were a Pizza delivery driver I would not have that concern. Well, I have yet to ever deliver my first pizza. Posting personal pictures and delivering pizzas are not on my agenda for 2019, and I dont expect a change for 2020 and beyond either.

If I have designated your profile as one I admire, that serves as a sort of reminder, namely a book mark for me go back and have a closer look. Some people seem to be offended by that. It is easy to see with people misinterpreting so many things why the dynamics here seem to border on toxic.

If you want to know more about me.... kindly drop me a note. The name ExpertSadist is an old moniker, and it really describes only a part of what I am. Some women are put off by that as well.

Fine. I am not a jar of Nutella... I am not here to please everyone. It is 2019, and women should have the confidence to write a letter first of they are so inclined. Its only an email...really.

I am safe, experienced, confident, and knowledgeable Im also a good listener. So drop me a line and tell me your thoughts.
2/27/2018 11:32:59 PM: February 2018Communication is tantamount.A few months ago I was in Chicago and was going to have an initial meet and greet coffee date with a person here on CS. I relearned something I have already known for years. That is, early emails and even phone calls often really leave a lot still uncovered. This person made so many prejudgements about me, including asserting that I had a Southern accent which she, a native Chicagoan, apparently felt was somewhat pedestrian and provincial. I actually do not have a Southern accent, and even if I did, I would not feel it would be something to be in any way negative.A number of other misperceptions arose and  it really all was due to the limitations of early and limited emails and phone calls. The point being, I will not judge a person in any substantive way until i have met them in person and engaged in some quality conversations. We never met, and that is fine. I am a confident top with more than sufficient self esteem, and insignificant events like this simply pass.  If your profile is completely empty, what is a person supposed to say when they initially write?All just food for thought...

2/9/2015 12:12:02 PM: February 2015I heard an interesting radio program the other day.National Public Radio  ( NPR.org) recently had a radio program with a panel of psychologists and scientists discussing  the science of falling in love. One author has a system of asking  36  questions to help ascertain compatibility. Here is a brief excerpt from the tran of the program, followed by the actual link for those of you who want to read more.“ Is There a Science to Falling In Love? 'Excerpt: A recent column in The New York Times described one woman’s experiment with finding love: Mandy Len Catron wondered whether it was possible to find the perfect match just by asking the right questions. Catron and a man she didn’t know that well met for dinner and asked each other a series of 36 probing questions, based on the work of psychologist Arthur Aron. Topics included whether they would like to be famous, and their most treasured memories. The result was a committed relationship that continues to this day. Diane and guests discuss whether there’s a “science” to falling in love. “ Also from same program“ In 1997,  psychologist Arthur Aron put together a list of 36 questions to test his theory that anyone—even strangers—could fall in love in a short amount of time.These are the questions he asked his test subjects. “For a list of the questions and more see the following.  Link: http://thedianerehmshow.org/shows/2015-02-09/is_there_a_science_to_falling_in_loveAnd there is more...In a related article from a recent issue of the New York Times (JAN. 9, 2015 Edition of the NYT.), the following:To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This Excerpt:“More than 20 years ago, the psychologist Arthur Aron succeeded in making two strangers fall in love in his laboratory. Last summer, I applied his technique in my own life, which is how I found myself standing on a bridge at midnight, staring into a man’s eyes for exactly four minutes.  “ Link:http://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/modern-love-to-fall-in-love-with-anyone-do-this.html?_r=0

2/6/2015 11:59:36 AM: February 2015I have deleted all my older journal entries.I need to clarify that I am not simply looking for edge playing extreme masochists. That is a common question I receive.I have also been asked if all my play activity causes permanent damage. Quite the opposite actually. I play with a great deal of technique and experience under my belt. If marks should occur, but I make sure that they are short lived and transient.  Also, not all play results in marks. I have had several wonderful experiences of women dressed up as slutty bimbos, while we role played. These women in real life are brilliant professionals, and being a blonde bimbo idiot is simply an alter ego. It was a lot of fun...and  alas...not a single whip was picked up.Some women want the heavy degradation and humiliation. I have done this in a very discreet manner in public, ending up with the women walking out of the restaurant with tight jeans simply drenched in the thigh areas.I hope this brief vinette has given you a better idea of the chemistry of some of my past encounters. Everyone has a unique chemistry, what is yours like??  Drop me a note.

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