Collarspace

Im told I am intellectual, smart, though sometimes it doesnt feel that way.I know what totally unconditional love feels like - both to give it and to get it. I say that because it was only recently that I actually *got* that. An emotional late bloomer? Perhaps.So here I am. This is not a lifestyle, I dont think it is possible (or healthy) to live in a 247 fantasy world. I certainly dont think it is healthy to take, or give, responsibility for emotional well being to another person. Thats just me, YYMV, and I wont judge anyone who feels differently.With all of that, submission comes in many s. It can simply be feeling safe and protected with someone, allowing all pretense to fall away. With that trust comes safety to reveal more, knowing that there will be no real harm done. From this you might get that I enjoy the exchange of ideas and thoughts. I do. The things on the laundry list below? They are no more than tools used to find the soul.