Hmmm, what to say about myself. I am a sadistic dominant, but one whose sadism is tempered with compassion and caring. Im kind of an oxymoron... anice sadist.

I recall daydreaming in my early years about kidnapping guys and taking them to a deserted island where they were kept bound andor in cages, their every move restricted and controlled. I became fascinated reading stories of spanking, bondage, and all things corporal. It wasnt until the early Internet days that I realized that this could be more than fantasy, that there were people out there in the real world who would actually allow me to do those things I had dreamed about.

Of course, by then I was married to a hopelessly vanilla husband whom I love dearly. I am fortunate that, although he does not share my interests, he is accepting of it and willing to let me pursue my desires.

I am socially rather reserved, so I tend to stand back and observe until I get comfortable. But I do enjoy scening in either a private or party environment when I have the opportunity.

Seeking a submissive masochist who can host. Not interested in married men who are cheating on their wives. I am looking for a long-term partner, but not a sexual relationship. I will not play until I get to know you as a person first. No long-distance, online only arrangements. Not interested in sissification, humiliation, or any kind of toilet play. Prefer someone younger than myself.