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I have been in the lifestyle long enough to incorporate my own ideas and customs into what works for me.

In my opinion Ds is built on a foundation of trust and communication. Its the erotica of the mind and body being caressed, excited and controlled. Ds comes in many s and varieties from a non sexual servitude all the way to complete sexual surrender and it is the combination of needs, desires and personality which help guide the submissive through her development and training.

BDSM to me is not sexual. I am a sadist and simply enjoy inflicting painful pleasures and I incorporate both Ds and BDSM into my relationship.

My ideal match would be female and submissive as well as wanting to explore her masochistic desires. Her sexual orientation is a relative non issue. I however am bisexual and in a relationship with my Dominant mate.

I would prefer a one on one relationship with a submissive, one which is apart and encouraged by my mate, however, if a submissive would prefer to serve us both, in time, that could be a possibility, depending what would be best for all, but the dynamic of the relationship that I have built with her will remain in place.

I am not interested in male submissives. My choice and simply my decision. I have the man who challenges and feeds my desires. Be respectful of my decision for your emails will be met with virtually blind eyes.

Lastly, if you are looking for cyber domination, good luck in your search, I will not dominate you from behind a keyboard.