Haaiii My name is Alessa, dont be afraid to say hey, Im usually too shy to do it myself p Please dont let that be the only thing you say though. Although I love serving and wish to find someone for that purpose, I also love meeting new people in general that are open to the lifestyle. Whether it be fellow subs, other trans girls, or anyone else who is open to sharing themselves and is willing to be patient with me as I grow.

ok, have been having some trouble so let me try to make this clear. I am a woman. If I absolutely have to be more specific then I am a trans woman. I am on hormones and doing everything else I can to live, feel and present as a woman. I am not a crossdresser, a gurl, a sissy or any derogatory term used against trans women. Im just a girl who happens to also be submissive and wishes for a bit of respect. Degradation and humiliation are tools, use them wisely. That being said, Im not offended easily and am very understanding of the fact that people can make mistakes in unfamiliar circumstances. If you have questions then Im more than happy to try to help

I tend to find more attraction to women, cis or trans. Really though I fall somewhere in the polysexual spectrum, Im complicated. At this time I have 0 interest in single men but will consider the right couple.

I do not have sex with strangers, especially when theres kink involved. I need some level of connection and trust built, just makes things more enjoyable as well. That doesnt mean it has to be a dedicated committed relationship though, something more casual is fine. I am open to poly or monogamous relationships, just depends on the partner or situation. Im more than willing to relocate but I cant promise itll be in the immediate future.

As for my interests, I think most of them are here, I may have missed a few though. Generally Im also pretty open to trying new things and doing other activities that please my partner. My tastes also shift a bit from time to time and Im learning that I enjoy certain things a lot more than I thought I would. All in all I would just love to keep gaining experience and be more and more involved in the lifestyle and community.


Results from bdsmtest.org (oct 2020)
100 Rope bunny
99 Submissive
98 Slave
97 Brat
95 Degradee
79 Masochist
79 Non-monogamist
71 Primal (Prey)
66 Experimentalist
63 Voyeur
62 BoyGirl
59 Degrader
58 Sadist
51 Exhibitionist
49 Rigger
48 Pet
44 Primal (Hunter)
43 Owner
39 DaddyMommy
28 Switch
19 Vanilla
19 MasterMistress
17 Ageplayer
14 Brat tamer
12 Dominant