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OurOtherSelf
| Hetero Male, 40, Manchester, United Kingdom
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Isn't it weird how to the outside world we are one thing and behind closed doors we turn into something else. The thrill of doing something that nobody who knows about from the vanilla world would ever think we could do to other or allow ours to have done to us. Now I am into domination and especially punishment behind closed doors but to the outside world I am someone completely different person, someone who is driven but respectful, a cultured person, fit, healty but to all intents and purposes pretty vanilla but when the door closes..... It can be tricky to square those two circles.
What am I looking for someone who to the outside world is in control of their life but behind closed doors, wants to be dominated and wants to be punished, I love a good OTK session. You need to be and sure of yourself because if you are not in control as a person, then giving up control is a excercise in futility.
If you like good food, great film, love a good book and trying new experiences, are fit and enjoy the great outdoors but also have that inate desire to be punished and controlled then we are probably a good fit.
Me, I am tall, slim, athletic, well educated, well read, well rounded or at least I would like to thing I am and love to travel, I also have a soft spot for alliteration. I am looking to meet some, get to know them and see how it goes. I am not looking for anything virtual becuase in my opinion the physical experience is always better then the virual one.
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11/10/2022 2:37:34 PM: So it's been nearly a year since I last posted a journal entry, oh how we bore of new toys so quickly! Or in the case of the CS journals old toys returned to us as if new. I have not been on CS much recently, mostly because lots of other things have been going on but as I find myself moving into the slow period again, and dragged back to the uneven pleasure of finding someone to love and punish. Unsure when I will once again gather up the will power to use this toy again, I leave you with a quote from Patrick Kavanagh, look him up folks, he was a bit of a rouge;
Lost the long hours of pleasure All the women that love young men. O can I stilll stroke the monster's back Or write with unpoisoned pen.
12/24/2021 11:18:27 AM: Happy Christmas, everyone and hopefully you all have a prosperous New Year.
The last year had been a tough one for everyone I am sure. However, keep your head up, keep smiling and don't stop laughing at the absurdity of this world of ours.
To paraphrase Sultans of Ping FC said, 'Things can only get better, even if you have lost your brand new sweater'
A little 90s indie pop reference there for all you indy kids out there!
12/12/2021 7:21:26 AM:
It's that time of year again, and the anticipation is building, those who have been good are waiting on their rewards and those who have been naughty...well they will get their, ahem, rewards as well....sorry folks I know, this has been a very clumsy attempt to create a link 'the holidays' as our American cousins would call it with corporal punishment. There is something particularly special about kink at Christmas don't you think. Maybe its the tinsel, maybe its the flashing lights or maybe its just the sherry/beer/gin making us all frisky but its definitely a time for letting go of our inhibitions and having a bit of fun! The anticipation of seeing someone naughty waiting for her punishment beside the Christmas tree, just makes it all the more enjoyable.
11/24/2021 2:14:00 PM: Is it just me or this place a little bit like a bad takeaway. You say to yourself after your last time you eat there, I am not going back there again. And yet something keeps drawing you back to it, what is CS's equivalent of the smell of frying chips? Answers on a post card please!
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