Submission. Doing something according to someone elses wishes or instruction. i.e. Doing something you would not choose to do of your own free will. The more you go against your natural instinct, the greater the submission and the more you get from that act of submission.
Submission is not choosing to have sex with some hot guy your friends would be interested in - it is choosing to let someone your vanilla friends could never be interested in do what they want with you - as little as take you for Dinner - as much as strip you naked - restrain and belt you and much more.
Safety and consent is key - I am totally respectful of others dislikes and limits - I want to understand what you are looking for - and what to avoid.
I am also very open to your particular kinks and interests so they are addressed as well. This is a two way thing and it should feel right for both people concerned.
Be open minded - ask me anything - do not judge others.
