Collarspace

Hi

Well this is one massive place huh. Right here for friends foremost, if something happens and I am ready then yay but honestly, my expectations are that maybe coffee meetings and little else.

I do bondage and discipline as well. i love to be restrained, love bondage and being the good sub. 20 years experience in being a sub, its kinda part of who i am.

I am in a vanilla poly open relationship but he knows and hes cool with it. We do out own things, i just need to stop becoming best friends with his ladies. )

In the light of being honest, well one person on here needs to be, I have a disability. Although not a visible one, I have a condition called fibromyalgia- basically meaning I am limited in what I can do and when. If I say I dont want to play- I do mean it. I will not be meeting anyone for play on a first date. Nope. If you dont want to meet for at least coffee then its off. Nothing may happen than you get a good friend as honestly? I am not here for play, a Master or anything else. If something happens and I feel at home enough then great. Ill be honest, Ive been through some crap, mistreatment, shouted at and had negativity piled on, and in terms of my last full ds relationship- used and not in the kinky way. Thats without the one nighters after lies have been told- and the guy who uses different accounts and different locations but is the same guy- go away.

Well if thats not turned off like 99.9 or you all come say hi )

Happy farm yard dreams all