First things first, I'm in an ENM relationship, meaning we're free to date other people and build connections. So I have a primary partner but I do have time for the right person. 

So thats what I'm looking for, to get to know people and build connections. They could be brief connections but I'd prefer something a bit more regular, since trust and respect is important when doing what we do. 

I identify as a Sadistic Top, although dominant is the closest option i can choose here. What that means is I enjoy seeing the reaction of my partner, but for each person what evokes that reaction might be different so I love exploring different peoples boundaries, whether that is what's considered great or small. The journey is the fun part, not the destination.

Profile updated June 2023