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"He becomes his strength, when he takes her, she becomes his weakness, when she submits" I understand that need for more, that more you crave deeper and darker, to feel more, to feel so much you can't decipher pain from pleasure, lust from love. Just more. Nothing gives me more pleasure than to create deep desires tormenting wants addictive cravings then dangle release tantalizingly just out of reach to humiliate degrade and increase the overwhelming need for more. "You might be shy, willing to learn, open to different things and wanting to discover those inner desires you crave to be released. Im an intelligent man, gentle and sensitive by nature, kind demanding complex and intense and strict at other times. I want to discover you piece by piece, emotion by emotion, kink by kink, and feeling by feeling. You will be intelligent, feminine, sensual, but possessing a mind of your own. You will be able to express your own wants and needs and a longing to release your inner slut. Tasks might range from vanilla to things more extreme and will be mutually agreed and based on respect trust honesty and affection." Im a discerning man. Some say intelligent, creative and acutely sensitive, others have described as wicked, complex, rich and interesting. All have said respectful, trusting and honest. Kind and gentle are two other adjectives that have been used. I live in Australia. My experience is that arousal and release is more about a psychological connection with another, at a deeper level possibly a spiritual union. Language is critical; the right whisper can drive one insane and crave for more. One wrong word can put out the fire. Tease and anticipation are wonderful tools if used in a respectful and trusting manner. Love and lust are two sides of the same golden coin. There is no blue print for any relationship. It's something that two people discover and create between them. Each relationship is unique and different. Both need to learn and respect each other limits. Both should be able to say yes or no. The underlying values that should prevail are trust, respect, caring and mutual understanding. Every person's map of the world is as unique as their thumbprint. There are no two people alike. No two people understand the same sentence the same way. In dealing with people, you try not to fit them to your concept of what they should be. I don't like labels because roles imply pre conceived expectations. I like to create my own canvass and each person brings with them, their own colours. I love tease and denial and sharing wicked talk, and setting tasks and instructions that work for the other person. Guided orgasms are heaven. I love the pure feminine essence and a woman's form. I savour thing like that morsel by morsel. Sexy underwear is my Achilles heel. Message me! 🌷