As interested in making friends as conquests, I'm quite picky (not being desperate) about who they are. Having said that, if you read profiles you will probably want to know something about this profile's owner, so here goes.

I've long been interested in the mental aspects of DS, in particular humiliation and objectification. Yes, physical discipline is an enjoyable element, but the mental side in particular is what attracts me: part of that is what can be achieved through the use of suggestion and hypnosis reinforced by rituals and rules. This might go as far as micromanagement in some cases and certainly would include elements of behaviour modification.

I enjoy enforced service, not just sexual (though there is a very strong element of that), as well as public display - inappropriate dress, being forced into difficult or embarrassing or humiliating situations in front of others - and private use as a plaything, required to perform tasks that cause difficulty and humiliation there too. Breast play, bondage, use of toys, a certain amount of discipline and sensory stimulation - all of these play a part. Whilst I'm not a full-on sadist, those with a masochistic streak bring out that side of me, conversely, I can leave it alone when it's more feared than relished.

I'm a good reader of personality. I know that what affects one person deeply leaves another unmoved and vice versa. That would make a list of typical activities pointless, as so much depends on the person and her reaction to a given situation. For that reason I prefer to work with someone who has some idea of what she needs and will reluctantly or willingly reveal her fears and desires rather than someone who clams up and will share nothing.

I'm looking for ongoing regular meetings including a full training programme, and open to discussing full-time live in slavery at some point in the future though not specifically seeking that. Alternatively, if you are attached and need an outlet, that's fine.  Age-gap relationships are particularly interesting - (real or simulated), so uncle-niece, teacher-pupil, boss-intern scenarios work well for me..

I'm widely read and well-informed, finding that also to be an appealing trait in my playmates. If you despair of finding someone on your own level I immodestly state that am likely to be one of the exceptions.

I'm also drawn to dollification, (through objectification) and the concept of the bimbo, whether done as role-play or deeper and longer-term. If you are familiar with the flexi-doll concept, that's a particular example I enjoy discussing.

Unlike many profiles these are not images pulled from the internet - each was taken by me in real life and I own the copyright.

I'm strictly interested in females only and I regret that messages from males go to bulk due to one or two irritating pests.

I'm a fascinating conversationalist, have a varied and interesting lifestyle and have the means to enjoy life (as you would expect from a confident and successful professional male).

I'm happy to talk to anyone who has something interesting to say. Don't feel that you need to be put off by lack of experience, age, appearance or anything else you might feel less than confident about. I enjoy conversations with people who have anything interesting or new to say, or those who are complete beginners but feel the need to reach out.

What I'm NOT into is drawn-out conversations with fantasists who can't separate reality from imagination. I practise what I preach and expect you to be at least a little grounded in the real world! I am the real thing and only interested in the same.