Collarspace

First off, UK only and please - no subslave men, thank you.

Despite what might be considered being a young age Im an experienced lifestyle Dom. I started exploring my sexuality from quite early on, by 18 I had my first sub. Since then I havent been interested in girls who arent compatible with my nature and open minded enough to actually do something like this.

Ds is mainly about compatibility, find someone who wants the same things as you do and youre already half way to having something mind blowing.

For this reason Im quite fussy about who I play with and more fussy about anything that could become long term, also, that Ive spent the majority of my adult life in quite intense relationships and it would take something very special to make me want one again.

What I like to do... what I like to do.

One big thing to me is sexual objectification. To me, this is about taking a girl, and making her look feel like shes designed by me, for me. The walking epitome of sex. A 100 customisable fuck doll, to please me. Like I said, this is quite a big thing to me and I can talk about a lot of whats written here for hours but that isnt what a profile is for.

I like extremely rough and intense sex. Im always thinking of new ways I can take a girl somewhere in her head. Provoke certain headspaces and inspire intense emotions. The physical is just a gateway. I want to make her feel, and not think.

I practice classical conditioning obedience training consensual non-consent. I provide aftercare when its needed and I think of the training process as a step ladder rather than a diving board. As trust grows it enables us to do more. I adoreerotic humiliation. I like to listen and understand my sub and I like to discuss ideas together. Communication and honesty is key in this type of thing.

Im not into the scene and I dont wear latex, The BDSM scene or culture, as a whole kind of makes me cringe. I dont want to join the club.

Outside of Ds I run a small business having started that roughly two years ago. I spend most of my free time learning about things, having spent so much time partying and generally being a live wire when I was younger. Ds calmed me down in that regard because I had a new outlet to channel that energy and then devote more of my time to things thatll teach me something. Im very loyal to my friends and family, despite me being quite different to them in some ways. Its a bit of an open secret that I have subs and though I dont talk about it, unless its to set someone straight. It does get tricky when Im asked what did you do this weekend? Because their jaws would probably drop and stay there all day if said. The problem is theres a large area of my life I cant discuss except for with a few people. I do normally stay in touch with my subs and some of my play partners even after weve stopped being physical because having given me what they did, they deserve that. Submission is all you have.

Your level of experience or anything like that, isnt as important as your open mindedness and your will to please. It is rare for me to message anyone on this site, not least because the notorious amount of fakes and wannabes here. If I do message you, trust me, its a big deal.

If you answer yes to all of my questions then you can message me and chat.

Are you a cute, intelligent, submissive girl who wants to explore her sexuality through submission? In particular, sexual objectification?

Do you have fantasies about being erotically humiliated?

Do you like extremely rough , intense sex?

Do you have dark fantasies?

Do you want to explore these within an understanding environment?

When shes abandoned her moral center and teachings...when shes cast aside her facade of propriety and lady-like demeanor...when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me.

Marquis de Sade