11/3/2023 10:25:29 PM: Okay, let's just be honest.  I haven't journaled here in ages.  Maybe 10 years.  But I had an issue on another site that I just needed to vent about.   Talking to a 'girl' on another site and after she got a bit strange, came back at me with 'I'm autistic'.  Umm honey, I don't care.  If you're that out of control because you're autistic, you sholdn't be here.  That's not an excuse.  I'm sorry, but just no. 

7/9/2023 11:41:20 PM: Oh, for goodness sake.  I know I haven't posted to my jounal for ages...  And by ages, we're talking what?  A decade?  Please, please, please stop messaging me with the presumption that I'm going to guess what your interests are.  If you want me to guess, why on earth did you message me?  My profile is pretty clear about who I am.  I expect you to be too.

12/30/2014 10:21:21 PM: So, yes, I'm in my 50's.  Honestly that doesn't bother me in the slightest.  I've learned a lot over the years and wouldn't be who I am without that time learning.One of the thing's I have indeed learned is that when I get an email from the female half of a 'couple', it's probably the guy.  And if that couple doesn't have a profile, or the profile is disabled...  Yes, it's the guy and the wife either doesn't exist, or she had no clue that he wants to have both of them be some man's bitch.I'm just going to call you out on it so save us both the trouble and don't send the email.  K?  Great!  Glad we had this conversation.

2/3/2013 8:19:52 PM: Ok, I'm tired of reading people bemoaning that people think they're too young, or to old, or too fat or too whatever.  Get a grip on life people.  Each of us have our own desires and needs.  I'm 50.  Yeah, I see some 18 yo subs that are just smok'n.  They're looking for someone closer to their age.  Yeah, I get it.  I understand.  So, I can play 'oh, woe is me!'   Or I can be an adult and understand where they're coming from.   If you can't understand where these limits come from, you need to look at yourself.  Why doesn't an 18 yo want a 75 yo Dom?  Duh.  Remember what you wanted when you were 18.  It probably wasn't some old fart.  Why doesn't a fit, 35 yo want a 500 pound sub/Dom...  Really?  you're asking this question?  Grow up people.

2/1/2013 11:27:26 PM: So, what is it all of a sudden with every girl in the world posting profile pictures of them flipping the bird?   To the subs doing it:  Really?  This makes you attractive how?   To the 'Dommes' doing it:  Ummm...  Really?  That's all you've got?  Yes, you have a pic, I congratulate you on not living in the real world where that matters.  But that's it?  You can flip the bird?  Wow.  Good for you.