7/23/2013 3:43:22 PM: I am learning everyday as we all should. Some of the lessons I have learned have been 'painful' and others have been right on time as I grown in this lifestyle that I have accepted.  I appreciate and completely respect the trust my sub has placed in my hands more now than ever.  The real power of my role as a 'dom' is limited to my subs power/ability to surrender himself/herself to me and allow me to nurture the ability he or she has relinquished.        

9/11/2007 12:25:07 PM: Honesty is not the best policy it it is the only policy.  I  am an aggressive total dom.  I don't want to take control of a sub I want the sub to give themself to me.